Boys, Girls... I fucked up with him and don't know what to do?

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First off i love this man, his short comings don't bother me at all, Im looking for advice on how to makeup for what i said and help with his problem. We have been together for a year and yesterday we had sex for the second time, and after him getting me really turned on and sticking his fingers in and licking my vagina we wanted to put his penis in. I wanted to start off with laying on our sides, me having my one leg spread in the air a little and having him enter me from the back, now i have chubbier thighs and butt, so as he got positioned he started playing with my boobs and started moving, i couldn't feel anything in my vagina. All i felt was what i thought was something touching the outside.

When i reached down i could feel the tip of his penis moving in between the lips of my vagina but like not actually inside it (maybe 1/2 an inch shy form going in), so i thought he was just trying to teas me and waiting for me to ask for him to put it in. I asked him to please hurry and i wanted him in my vagina... this is when he said "i have been in you", i then i realized that because he was so much smaller, that was actually as much of my vagina as he could reach. After him almost breaking down and crying i convinced him to give it another try in different positions but non of them got him deeper then just the head of his penis being only an inch or so in my vagina (which i couldn't really feel). Me feeling horrible and worried about how hurt my man was, i laid on my side again but with my thighs together, and had him rub his penis between my thighs and play with my vagina for a couple of seconds till he came on the outside of it. I didn't expect him to cum so fast from just my legs so it shocked me and i let out a little laugh by accident. i tried to explain it was because he was embarrassed about me not being able to feel him in my vagina that made him finish so fast and the laugh didn't mean anything but he wouldn't listen to me.
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I know its a long story so here's a TLDR; We were having sex for the second time, he's smaller so i didn't know if he was in me so i accidentally asked. He hasn't talked/looked to me all day, how do i make up? Im so scared and worried about what i should do to get my loving kind guy to talk to me about it so we can work together in finding something that will work for us, because even if it is just the tip and i can't feel it much at all i just want to have sex with this one man forever. I don't know if
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Most Helpful Girls

  • You fucked up big time, okay you have to sit him down and explain everything to him and that you weren't laughing at him. Make it up to him by pleasing him; take him out then bring him home and put something sexy on. He has to get that you love him even if he has a small dick.

    • yea, of course i love him regardless of penis size causes theirs so many other ways for him to do it for me. I just can't get it through to him that it doesn't matter.

    • You have to sit him down and talk and keep on showing that you appreciate him.

    • yea, he's a guy though, and so damn stubborn on small things that dont matter ugh. would me paying more attention and putting more focus towards working on him instead of focusing on my vagina help?

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  • he's small. Get on top. There are other positions u can try for a guy that is small. Make sure u let him know he pleases u so he doesn't feel like he isn't doing the job well... Give him confidence.

    • Yea, he does please me because theirs other ways he can make me feel good, but he's so fixated on the one method.

    • Then boost his confidence while in that position. Make him feel like he's doing a great job whether its moaning more or grabbing him closer to you matters. Guys look for a response when it comes to feeding you sexually

    • okay, i can't definitely try to moan, and some girls have told me that faking an orgasm can help with them feeling like there doing good?

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  • How small is He? And when I say chubby do u actually mean fat? Cause both of these things matter in finding a way to fix the problem

    • I don't think id say fat but not skinny by any means just like thinker bum and legs. He's about 3.5" - 3.8" long and 3.9" thick :(

    • Well if you lost weight it'd probably help a lot. The added fat is definitely not helping at all

    • I can try but as you know that's not easy and takes a long time, but evens stuff like missionary where i didn't think fat would matter still dose not get much of it in my vagina. I don't know im only 18 i dont have any experience.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well you definitely hurt his ego.
    At some point you have to talk to him cus now it's on you but also when you talk to him don't be pity about it.
    Make him feel loved smile while talking, and good luck.

  • I think it's great that you care so much, he's lucky. You'll get through it dear, trust

    • I do care, i dont understand how some women act like its such a big deal, when you actually care nothing matters besides the other feeling loved. Vaginal sex doesn't feel good, so what theirs so many options.

    • Yea your right and if you truly love someone, sex dosent need to be involved.

    • exactly, i wish more guys understood that we will still love them even if they are not good in bed

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