Break after sex ?

[lost_and_confused]

Me and my girlfriend had sex, it was not planned for from my side, so i used the pull out method, after doing it multiple times we was afraid of her getting pregnant so i bought norlevo (emergency pill). The day after she told me that we need a break from each other ! And she wants some space. by the way she is super emotional. Is this the pills effect? Or she was afraid of getting pregnant or am i messing something? And what should i do? Someone explain pleasee

[Anna_99]

The same thing happened to me (and I didn't get pregnant, but it was scary all the same)

Her mood swings may be from the pill, has far has I know, the emergency pill is A LOT of hormones packed up in only one pill, so it must be it.

Remember to validate her feelings, emergency pill or not, human emotions are what they are.

You should talk to her about this, and be clear and honest with what you're feeling and thinking, clear communication, when done right, resolves a lot of problems. As for now, I think she's scared about the possibility of being pregnant.

I'd like you to imagine you're part in this. If she is pregnant, what will you do? Maybe she's scared because there's a possibility that you could just run away and leave her alone.

Lastly, I'd advise you two to think about other contraceptive methods, it's a good idea to use at least 2 at the same time, so the stress of "maybe being pregnant" won't happen again.

[lost_and_confused]

It's been like 6 days, would the pills affect last that long ! For me i would never run a way, if i have a child i have a child, i already wanted to marry her, but her father refused. I tried to talk to her but she shut me down. Like go see your life and self, i am seeing mine and figure out what i want and need, marriage is not like ordering fast food, and whatever i told you "i love you and we will together 4 ever... etc" is not a guaranteed paper.

[Anna_99]

did she have a pregnancy test?

[lost_and_confused]

We barely talk, last thing she told me, that she is hoping that her period will come in 2 weeks, though i know that her period is on th 10th by the way we had sex on the 27th

[Anna_99]

It's very important for her to have a pregnancy test. It would be a good idea to research if there are any affects of the emergency pill that could interfere with her period or with a test.

[lovedejj_xo]

She doesn’t want a child right now. And she wants space from you in general. It’s very simple. She seems like she doesn’t know what she wants in life I wouldn’t bother with her anymore

[lost_and_confused]

I love her, but what keeping me there is the possibility that there is a slim chance of her being pregnant which i want to know. But honestly her attitude changed like 180 degrees, it's like talking to a person i know nothing about

[lovedejj_xo]

She’s not pregnant she just may have some mental health issues. I would run.

[worldscolide]

9 times out of 10 when a woman says "we need a break" thats code for her wanting to fuck other guys without it being cheating. Find someone else. Dont let that girl manipulate you like that.

[lost_and_confused]

Dude the moment i know she got her period i am out of there

[OlderAndWiser]

She is more likely to be freaking out that she had to resort to using the morning after pill.

[lost_and_confused]

What should i do? Cuz now she is making me freak out

[OlderAndWiser]

Let her know that you feel badly that she has experienced such strong, negative feelings and ask if there is anything you can do to help her feel better. Reassure her that although the sex felt wonderful, your feelings for her are much deeper than that.

[lost_and_confused]

I am afraid of talking to here, last time she told me that i am pressuring here and i need to stop.

[OlderAndWiser]

You may have already blown your last chance with her.

[Sonorous]

I mean, those pills have many side effects... I wouldn't be surprised if it was.

[lost_and_confused]

It's been like 6 days, wouldn't the affect be off?

[Sonorous]

I don't know 🤔 But I think this stuff isn't that simple. We're all science, so different drugs interact with different people differently. Some could potentially last longer than usual