Bumble date cum in me.. Did he use me?

I'm 19 and went out with a hot guy thats 21. All seemed fine... we had sex and was good but then he finished inside me like it was normal. He did not ask or anything. He was on top holding me tight and I really couldn't stop him. Then after he said he always finishes inside. So I'm on pill but he did not know. He wants to go out again but I won't now. Do lots guys do this?
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  • Lol well at least he wants to go out again.

  • did you ask him to wear a condom or something?

  • no we tend to ask rather than just go for it

  • It feels better to cum inside. Generally if you don't specifically say for him not to cum inside, and let him penetrate raw, a guy might assume it's okay. I would always cum inside raw, but ai am also shooting blanks.

  • I use protection for my own health.

  • Was he wearing a condom?

    • No thats why I was mad

    • Yeah it's a bit strange for someone to not give a care about who he cums in. Just scare him with a pregnancy and it will stop xD

  • If you are in a long term relationship, this wouldn't happen, unless you both agree, but it's normal for a guy to cum inside, that's natural. If you have sex with different people, you never know what can happen.

  • Cummings inside is the most natural although should ask first

    • Ya he just did it thats why mad

  • whats the problem

  • No that’s definitely rape

    • My friend said that I don't know tho

    • Dont listen to this dude it’s not rape

  • Definitely

  • You used him, and he used you that's all.
    By the way, you should have warned him not to cum inside.

    A lot of guys like to cum inside

    • Ya but he just did it so I don't know

    • Better to talk about these things upfront

  • Guys who don't respect woman do this

    This is all important stuff and requires consent from both parties.
    Anyways he just assume you will take the pill and that's it.
    Be careful next time, if you want to meet him discuss about this what happened, if he acts like a dick give him no pussy and move on.

    Keep your respect and you will find many better guys out there.

  • Assholes do yes. But you should ask so speak up

  • Most of those "dating" app are just for hook ups

  • I don't know i mean I probably would've done the same

  • Different guys like to cum in different places. If u don’t like it then tell him or find a guy who likes to cum elsewhere. I know I am a fan of mixing it up

  • I find it pretty normal, although he should tell before but its normal behaviour.

  • Yes... dont date him again
    He will use you
    I know this type of guys

  • He sounds like he was gonna cum in you then leave. Do you know his name is even his real name? Sneak a picture of his ID before he leaves you and you don’t know his info. Either abortion or raise a fatherless child

    • Ya he said he does it to all his meet ups

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