Can a girl be too small or too tight?

Have you ever tried having sex with someone and it hurt wayyy too much, or you didn't fit easily?
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I'm asking because guys often are worried about their size when any girls that are small might not be able to handle above a certain size. It would hurt too much.
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  • I've been with enough women that I've ran into a few outliers - on both ends of the size bell-curve. So, yes, it's possible. One girl was so tight that foreplay was absolutely required, along with slow stretching with fingers first, or there was just no way I was getting it in her. Even the 100th time, she had a tight, tight pussy.

    I also had one girl who was HUGE, and it was pretty bad (and very unexpected!). Normally, when you're making out/having foreplay, and you slide your hand in a girl's panties and find her wet, you can usually slip a finger inside her without much of a problem. Some girls, you can go straight to two fingers (and some you have to work up to that), though it's usually a pretty snug fit at first with two. This girl kind of thrust forward and my fingers just sunk in with no resistance, and I had 3 in her with plenty of room for a 4th. It was crazy, and having sex with her was like ringing a "triangle" dinner bell - you could only hit one side at a time. I've never felt so small... LOL.

    Every other woman I've been with has been solidly in the middle part of the bell curve. If you said 1 was super-tight and 10 was super loose, then the first girl was maybe a 1.5, the second was a 10, and almost every other woman (40+) was a 5 or 6.

  • Tight pussy is always better than loose. Quite frankly, I can't recall ever being with a girl who was TOO tight to penetrate. Sometimes you just need to warm them up a little. Like finger their pussy or eat them out and get them stretched out and soaking wet before you stick your dick in them

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  • yes one guy in particular complained of pain and gestured that the terrain was rough and ”wavy” and he was a bit angry about it.

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  • Yes, I have. Guys always say that tighter is better, but there is such a thing as "too tight" when it's difficult for the girl. Alternately, the guy could just be a bit too big for her, as well. Both partners need to be taken into consideration.

    Of course, there are always options such as lube, or going very slowly/easing into it, but depending on the dimensions of both the guy, and the girl, sometimes it can be very difficult.

  • Yes... I was dating a petite 24yr old puerto rican girl and no matter what we did I couldn't fit.

    I have had single mothers that have been in pain during sex.

  • Yes I've tried and that was awesome for me, painful for her.

    • Did you feel bad for her or was she okay with it?

    • I said I can stop if you want but she said she's ok with that.

  • Yes I've been with two I could not penetrate without causing pain.

    • Us bigger guys like thick hips for a reason

  • If I get her wet enough, it's not a problem and may be more pleasurable. Too loose on the other hand, could pose a problem.

  • At different times, my wife has been too tight at first and it demanded more foreplay and more lube. A previous girlfriend's mouth was too small to do oral without feeling her teeth until she practiced a few times.

  • No any pussy adopt cock easily.

  • Happens all the time and sometimes even practice doesn't always make perfect but I do my best to make her cum! :-)

    • I tend to lean more towards petite type women and I always wonder if I would hurt them.