Guys, Can a girl ever be too demanding of sex that it bothers you?

I have a very high sex drive. Going without sex for a day will even put me in a mood. I love sex even more when I’m in love. I’ve been dating a guy for four months now and he will be the second guy I’ve ever loved. I haven’t been with many partners (six including my current boyfriend) but I’m definitely sexually experienced. Can a girl ever talk or demand sex too much from her man? I feel like a guy at times because that’s all I can focus on for awhile when I’m with him and then after I’m good and happy with him. 😅 I love “sweet” sex. He often does missionary with me but he isn’t big into throwing me into other positions. I also love that sweaty hard sex. I love to dominate him a bit and vice versa. He’s told me he’s only slept with girls who are more vanilla. He said he has never been with a woman who is at his level sex drive…but so feel I surpass him. Point is can a girl demand too much to the point it’s annoying to a guy?

Guys, Can a girl ever be too demanding of sex that it bothers you?
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^ a text I sent him later this morning after us being together. He didn’t respond really only to saying that he loves me too.
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  • SOME would term your desire as a form of 'nymphomania'... speaking personally, I've been looking for someone like you ALL my life! Western Puritan culture promulgates early developmental sex shaming.

    The male 'refractory period' is NO excuse; he has 10 fingers, a tongue and limitless potential 'toys' to be shared. If he's lost interest in YOU after HE'S 'nutted' ... he's both immature and selfish!
    There's an expression: "The FIRST is for 'the thirst'... follow-ups are less 'driven' and open to leisurely finesse'.

    As long as your conception is blocked and your companion is disease-free, YOU have every right to ENJOY as much carnality as your youthful circumstances afford you... and as ANY man.

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  • This has happened to me on multiple occasions , and I have always tended to attract women with extremely high sex drives , I have no idea why that happens , but its just how it is..

    I think of one Ms J , and if I could have " kissed flower " all night , without falling asleep , she'd could last a week , the thing was it was just impossible to keep up , but I pushed and pushed all the time , until I'd just literally pass out.

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  • Too demanding? No. Not really but a female recovery is minutes and a man’s can be several minutes, to hours, to a day. The freakier you are the easier it is for us to recover. Vanilla missionary is the baseline. Lingerie, toys, and dirty talk and every hole would even wake King Tut up from his grave.

  • No, because it's my responsibility to make sure she's totally and completely satisfied at all times.

  • You sound like my kind of girl , I wouldn’t complain what so ever lol

  • Yes, if all she thinks about is her own pleasure and demands that I do whatever she wants so she can have multiple orgasms, that would bother me. Only one woman I've known has ever been like that. 4 dates I think and it was over.

  • Yes, because my recovery period is slow.

  • It depends on the guy. Personally I'd love it if my partner was more demanding sexually...

  • No sex is too much. The problem is different people have different drives and staminas. If your man can’t keep up with you would you consider a second boyfriend?

    • No, definitely cannot when I’ve fallen in love with a guy. Even if I’m not in a love with a guy sleeping around isn’t something I can do. It’s too emotionally and physically draining. I just wish he was a bit more aggressive at times.

    • People can change and adapt if they really wanted. You could too. I did. 10 years ago I was strictly monogamous but now I’m poly and have given my wife permission to have sex with anyone she wants anytime she wants. Humans weren’t meant to be monogamous. Religion forced that on us

    • some humans weren't meant to be monogamous, like you, for example. others have other reproductive strategies. no right or wrong, just evolution.

  • I've never had that problem.

  • No I have a very high sex drive as well so I'm probably ready for it anytime

  • does your SO know that you're sharing him with strangers, or is that the point?

    • Sharing him with strangers? I’m only with him. I’m not cheating on him at all.

    • you're sharing your intimate moments, that he is part of, with strangers. does he know? worth considering how this would make him feel... perhaps? maybe you want attention. that's fine too.

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