Can a girl still be hot at 23?

Why do people make age a big deal. I get told a lot i look younger but im sick of hearing the teen girl stuff and whatever looks better. So basically once she hits 20 she's no longer hot? Thats fucked up...
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  • Men are attracted to youth, because youth aligns with fertility. Women's peak attractiveness is around 16-28, and it's no surprise that this is also the time of her peak fertility. We literally evolved to be most attracted to women who were fertile because otherwise, our species would have died out, as have many others before us.

    Average SMV (social market value), by age and sex
    Average SMV (social market value), by age and sex

    At 23, you are still literally at your peak, and you have incredible leverage to get a great relationship partner (by YOUR standards) IF you choose to take action and get things moving in that direction relatively soon. Having said that, you also need to keep in mind that the primary reason men get into committed relationships/marriage is because they want a family/children - which is also why youth and fertility are so important. This is ESPECAILLY true of non-celebrity "high-value men" - the business owners and senior-management types. (Celebrities are a very different animal, and you'll note that very few celebrities have lasting relationships.)

    Remember: SMV is about relationships, not the ability to attract men for sex - nearly any woman of average and above physical attractiveness can get plenty of men who want to sleep with her, but that has very little correlation to how many would be in a serious, committed relationship with her.

    And you can kind of think of SMV like "buying power" - something like a pre-approved amount that you can borrow from the bank to buy a home. At your age, it's as if the bank has pre-approved you for a loan up to $10M to buy a home - you have incredible buying power. That doesn't mean that, at 30, you won't be able to buy a home - it just means that at that age, it's like the bank telling you that you can only borrow $400,000. It's still possible to get into a house, but that house isn't going to look anything like what you could have gotten when you were worth $10M to the bank. And the older you get, the lower that loan amount gets.

    But here's the thing: you got your value by simply having a uterus, a pretty face, and a 16th birthday party. You didn't have to do much to get it - you only have to worry about using it wisely while you still have it.

    Men - as the graph clearly shows, are worth virtually nothing as teens - what little value they have is usually as cannon fodder. The reason men's value peaks at 35 is because men have to go out and WORK for their SMV, because women value (aside from looks) status and security, and since few are born into those things, the vast majority of men have to go out into the world and earn them - and those who can't or won't are doomed to be low SMV forever.

    These are not my rules - this has always been the way of the world - but if you want to have relationships with men, then you're only going to have success by understanding the system and using it to your best advantage. Note that your degrees and career gain you nothing here, because they don't change the status of your youth and fertility. This is why Radical Feminists have worked so hard to destroy relationships between men and women, my teaching women to waste their most valuable years doing other things, knowing that they'll never get that value back.

Most Helpful Guy

  • That's insane. A 23 year old is practically a kid. She is fully blossomed. Her body is perfect. She no longer looks like a 9th or 10th grader, but it's often hard to tell if a 23 year old is even legal age. She looks timeless. A lot of women look hot af well into their 30s and beyond.

    I had girlfriends from the time I was 16. The sexiest one I ever had was 31.

    I guess it depends on what kinds of guys she is looking for. High school guys might think 23 is old. When I was 17 or 18, I had a friend whose dad was entering a car in the Concourse de Elegance car show in Laguna Beach, Ca. There were going to be Playboy bunnies there and I was excited to see them. When I did, I wasn't as thrilled as I had expected. They are so filled out and... curvy. I was used to high school girls. It wasn't until a few years later that I realized that those Playboy bunnies were lush. They were the ideal female form.

    Also, some studies indicate that women are at their sexual peak between 27 and 45. It's when their sex drive is the strongest. They have more frequent, intense and satisfying sex.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes ofc. I'm 23 and I think I look good. I'm not sure why people keep making a big deal about age either. Some people say they're old when they're approaching 30. They're not OLD, they're YOUNG people. There are a lot of people who are in their 30s who still look like they're in their 20s. Even people who are in their 40s and 50s can still look good if they have good genes and they take care of themselves

  • Is this a thing? When I was a teen I always wanted to look older. Any guy saying someone who looks 23 is too old has some bad pedo vibes

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  • At 23? If people think you're too old to be hot b then.. then they have a fucked up mindset. Seriously, that's creepy.

  • 23 is still young and a girl can still be hot for sure. They can still be hot at 33 or 43 even older. Age has nothing to do with hotness in my eyes. It's how she presents herself.

  • I’m confused at how 23 is old

  • No, girls in their 20's are hot but far too young for me. . . just cute to look at.

  • Women look hot at almost any age.

    look at Liz Hurley.

    Jessica Alba

    etc

    Who ever said it is talking bollox

  • No. It's physically impossible. Einstein and Da Vinci said so. Salma Hayek used to be hot. Then 1990 happened. "When she hits 23, fellas avoid that pus-sy." Thems the rules! Can't argue with facts! 😎

  • Nah, she only stops being a "girl" and becomes a "woman", and as the woman she can be hot her whole life. She just won't attract those who are looking for a 18-20y "girl".

  • 23 is still very young

  • Are you serious?


    Yeah, she can……

  • 23? A woman can be hot at 43 or 63 or even older.

  • Women can be hot and sexy at 23, 33, 43,53... and so on. Age is just a number and how well she looks after herself along with genetics play a part in it. Raquel Welch and Sophia Loren are 81 and 87 respectively and for their age still pretty hot. Jennifer Aniston is 52 and still in great shape and looking fairly hot. I could put more examples out there but I think I've made my point.

  • Well, anonymous, that is not true. What idiot told you that?

    • Read another comment on here and someone else from a question on a how i look but yeah..😔

    • The hotest girls, I ever had were in their low 20's

  • Sure. She can even look good physically when in her 40s too.
    It all comes down to what you want out of life (the kind of relationship) and if you are the quality of person that can be appealing to the person you want. That includes people's past actions that will always matter too.

    I have no idea where someone got the idea that being in their 20s makes someone unattractive.

  • Most women imho look good into their mid to late 40's if they just eat right and don't do drugs or drink too much and keep up on sleep. Don't be hard on yourself you're fine lol. And with the latest in skin care and cosmetics even some 60 year olds have managed to decieve me with a good make up game, skin care routine, and hair dye lol. Do no fret!

  • I've slept with women 18 to late 40s. If you take care of yourself and don't get fat you can be hot at any age.

  • I don’t know what kind of idiots you’re around but look at Morgan Fairchild that bitch is gonna be hot till the day she dies probably trust me hotness doesn’t end at twenty it sounds like you’re hanging around with a bunch of 15 year olds

  • Here’s the thing about gals…the younger they are, the more they can get away without taking of themselves (in terms of health, fitness, nutrition & overall wellness) and still look good.

    I sincerely feel that ladies in their 30s look THE best if they take care of themselves. A 19 year old can get away with eating convenience store food & fast food and still look “hot”

  • A women can be hot even in her 60s. As you get older your tastes change, an 18 year old just looks like a young child.
    So when you are 50, women in their 30s/40s & 50s can look hot.
    So life is not over at 23.

  • That's not true. There are lots of 23-year-old girls who are hot.

  • She’s plenty hot at 23

    • A woman can be beautiful and sexy at any age a lot depends on how she takes care of herself and a real man will love you the way you are and and love you for being yourself

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