Guys, Can a girls vagina really be too tight?

So this morning I was having sex with my husband. We haven't had sex in a few weeks unfortunately (due to a crazy few weeks) and when I go a period of more than a week without sex when I finally do have it my vagina is extra tight and has to loosen up again. I'm 22, without kids and have always been extremely tight. However this morning my husband, who usually always finishes couldont. He almost came from the oral I gave him before the actual penetration but couldnt finish inside. He said that I was so tight that the head of his penis had become numb and was uncomfortable. Thing is we've never had that problem before no matter how long we go without sex. He also struggled a lot to keep up the pace and gave up due to being tired. He reassured me it was just because I was a little too tight due to not having sex for a few weeks. Guys does this sound like BS to you or could this actually happen? Has anyone experienced the same thing?
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  • This may sound weird but does he ever ride a bike? I ask this because pressure on the area between the anus and penis can pinch the nerve that is there and cause the same type of reaction. Riding a bike is the most common cause of that type of pressure. If not then I suppose his explanation is possible. I've never heard anything like that before but that doesn't really mean anything. It is also possible that he was simply too tired. If things have been as crazy as you say, that is very likely. Unless it happens again I wouldn't worry about it.

  • Sure. I have been too big for a girl and literally couldn't fit it in. It can cause pain too. This is usually due to a physical condition or a mental condition. In most cases a tight vagina literally massages a penis when he is inside her and creates sensations of intense pleasure. I almost went insane with a woman who had strong kegel muscles. the sex was addicting.

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  • No, too tight is why guys look for isn’t it?

  • The head of his penis is uncomfortable because it has ready been orally stimulated to the point of ejaculation, NOT because of your vagina.

    That's my best guess. I can't even get off from oral because the stimulation is too high for me. If I let a girl blow me too long, I can't get off at all.

  • It’s BS

    • Why do you think that

    • Your pussy will pass a baby.

    • Ok but that has nothing to do with the fact he goes numb when penetrating me. Unless you've had sex with a really tight woman how would you know

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  • I have had a few that felt like a tight rubber band and it was annoying until I got on the smaller girth part at the base. But the bigger problem is most are too short.

  • I've been with a woman who waa so tight that it hurt. Yes it's very possible.

  • Nope never be to tight

  • Could be yah. But it’s ok, I’ll fix that

  • If it ain't tight it ain't right, if it ain't squeezing it ain't pleasing, if it slack carry it back.

  • There's no reason that it COULDN'T happen, other than it is just a plain rarity. He wasn't using a condom with a desensitizing agent in it, was he?

    Assuming this WAS as it was explained, I'd be more concerned about the REASON it happened. Next time, take a warm bath or shower to relax yourself. Bear in mind also that it takes more time for a woman to have the physiological difference caused from arousal than it does for a man, so HE may have to become more patient for YOU.

  • One of my friends on here said her boyfriend had a 9 inch dick and couldn't get it inside her

    So YES.

    • But that has nothing to do with him not being able to cum because of tightness as he couldnt get in her in the first place..

    • Oh I didn't actually read the details. Lol

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