Can a guy be confused if he cum inside you?

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4 mo
I was doing reverse cowgirl and I was so wet , he told me I was going make him cum but at one point a sat down aggressively on his dick and started grinding and he said that throw him off and he push me to the side started to jack off and his dick was soft and he couldn't cum. " thats why he confused "
4 mo
he finally said that I guess he didn't bust and that he probably tripping. smh
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  • Yes it is possible for a man to be unsure if he ejaculated..

    If the sex act has been going on for some time, the nerves in the end of the penis can start to become nunb and this will mean that sensations you would normally expect when orgasming can feel somewhat limited. This can feel a bit like when you feel yourself close to orgasm, but manage to stop it at the last minute. Now, the difference between the two would be that having orgasmed a man wolud feel the need to stop whereas after not orgasming he would normally be ok to continue, but this is complicated by the fact that if everything is going numb then there doesn’t seem a lot of point in continuing anyway!.

    Either way, the best solution is to take a break and consider starting again a little later. Or just both go to sleep!

    This is a slightly different circumstance, though, and feels more like the man is simply unsure if he pulled out in time. If that is the case then the answer is simply to have a feel around. If there is no sticky substance outside the vagina then there probably is some sticky substance inside!

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  • Yeah it is possible to be unsure. You can also back fire which is a strange feeling. Nothing comes out.

    • does that mean is a and thing I did?

    • No I don't think so. Never has been in my case. As another guy said you can get sort of numb. Possibly you are at the point of ejaculation for too long and you loose it and are left confused as to whether you did or did not. I've known girls to have been unsure if they rgasm'ed or didn't. If the girl is on top then the guy doesn't have as much control to thrust as he needs to to cum. That might have been more the problem. It is certainly why I like having the girl under me.

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  • WTF? Unless it’s oral or a handjob, I always cum inside. And I’ve never been confused about it.

  • You’re obviously a confused person to ask such a gooberish question troll ass bitch

    • I’m not trolling hun

    • Said every troll ever hon

    • You’re definitely trolling. Nobody needs or wants to hear your sex life in explicit details other then pervs. This ain’t a porn site. If you’re married you need a sex therapist. Or you need to stop being a ****

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  • It is not possible not to know.

    • I've had something similar happen. Please feel free to PM if you wish.

  • It'd HAVE to be some DAMN GOOD pussy to get ME confused!

    • but im still not understanding how would he not know then later say he didn't.. I don't know if to take that as good or bad

    • I just don't understand how confusion got into the picture. What's there to be confused about?

    • apparently I was going with a rhythm and the I aggressively sat on his penis and grind and that thrw him off. when I got off he jack off for a sec and he was soft and couldn't cum..

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  • He might be confused if he started leaking as he pulled out, but having an orgasm tends to be a pretty mentally significant moment lol. I tend not to be confused about whether I shot my load.

  • I'm sure most guys will agree with me, we know when we're going to cum. We can feel it building up and the final release. There is no being confused if it happens or not.

  • Nah you feel it, pre cum I can understand, but actual cum its a release.

  • Not really

  • no, not confused. He did it on purpose...

  • Why would you think that he could have been confused?

    • pls check this question out , is mine and I give details : Is it possible for a guy to be confused if he busted or not?

    • Okay. So the question is. Could a guy not know if he came or not? A full on orgasm, no! Leaking sperm with out an orgasm. Very much possible.

    • Unless you had ridden him until he lost feelings. I can’t believe that he wouldn’t definitely know one way or the other! Unless you weren’t using BC and he was trying to not take responsibility?

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  • If he that slow surprised he managed to have sex in the first place. We know well if we cum inside or not

    • can you read my other question related to this it tellsnmore details :Is it possible for a guy to be confused if he busted or not?

    • Nope not possible

    • so did he lie to me?

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  • He lost concentration, if the rhythm is thrown off it can cause you to lose that nut 🥜

    • so this he most likely didn't bust inside me?

    • Yeah, he would know if he gave you a creampie or has blue balls. He wouldn’t have been jerking off if he just got off.

    • so did he not enjoy it?

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  • that sounds unreal for me.

  • No you dumb bitch

    • More like he the dumb one not me

  • Confused about what on whether you are on birth control or not?

    • about if he busted or not

    • There’s no confusion there because every guy knows when he busted a nut or not