Can a guy cum from just dry humping/grinding?

So my new boyfriend and I have decided not to have penetrative sex yet. But we do makeout, and sometimes he gets me going and I’ll start grinding on his crotch (clothed). Once he was on top and my legs were wrapped around him missionary style and he started thrusting on me rubbing his hard dick against my crotch. Another time we were sitting face to face and I was on his lap and we grinded really hard. I could feel how hard he was. There was a third time that happened too.

So I know he was super hard all three times, and he was slightly moaning and thrusting hard and fast (to the point where my bed frame was repeatedly hitting the wall, and one time in the car the entire car was shaking), but then he just stopped? Every time was about 5-10 minutes. I never noticed a wet spot on his pants. Every time he just sat up and got water.

Why does he stop? Did he cum and I just can’t see it? One time I could visually tell he was still hard when he sat up. Any ideas what’s happening? Is it possible for a guy to cum from just thrusting and grinding?
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  • I have before... it happened in high school. I was in the band, and we were on our way back home, and one of my friends (a female) wanted to take a nap, and I let her use my lap to lay her head down. With the vibration of the bus, and the position of her head, I was getting aroused. After a little while, I could not hold back and I had an orgasm. I quickly got an extra shirt and let her use it for a pillow so she wouldn't be wise to what happened. Thank goodness it was dark when we got back.

  • It depends of the individual situation but it's definitely possible. I'd say it's pretty likely actually. A lot of people think that humping and grinding is lame but I say they're wrong cause I really like it a lot.

Most Helpful Girl

  • It's possible! Sometimes he might, sometimes he might not.

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  • Some guys can, but I not one of them.

  • Yes, that's how I masturbate, when I'm worshipping her feet or butt. I hump myself to climax against the floor while I'm licking her.

  • yeah but depends on the guy and of course the girl/woman who's doing the dry humping

  • Yes I have

  • That sounds hot!

  • Yeah, it can happen if the guy is horny enough, and goin at it.. Like yo dude was.. For me it the girl had a nice big ol butt, that would do it for me.. Lol.. Maybe.. I don't know..

  • Maybe, I have never tried.

  • I never have but, it could happen. Maybe he’s just stopping himself cumming in his pants?

  • Maybe. Might be stopping right before you give him blue balls.

  • No... everyone on Gag claims this is so great... it's lame

  • Yes 100%... I was with a woman at a club.. and she knew how to move her ass.. like I have never seen in my life... I had to pull away or else.. I would have finished.

  • i did that many times during lap dances

  • Yep.

  • it and he is probably stopping before he does

  • It was during dry humping that I discovered the finest pleasure of masturbstion. Oh yeah

  • Yes. It actually happened to me when my SO started dating. We decided to hold off sex at first but after some intense grinding like you explained, we gave up and just started having sex.

  • Sounds like you want him to cum

  • Yep.

  • I can cum dry humping