Can a guy cum or leak sperm and not know it?

Sometimes when me and my boyfriend are having sex he goes soft and can’t get it hard again. Is there a chance he came but didn’t realize it?
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  • Mostly what we get from arousal is clear precum. Once making out starts, its pretty inevitable for me. But if I am aroused for a long time, opaque semen leaks out of the prostate due to congestion pressure and clouds precum. This is NOT the time to have pull-out sex.

    Based on how the day has gone, particularly on the beach, precum will leak a lot and leave a spot.

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  • Leak, yes. Cum, I'm not so sure. It does tend to leak a few more drops a few minutes after I came and, in some cases, after I take a shit. I mentioned that to my ex-fiance a few times and she'd get very envious, for some reason!
    If your boyfriend came, there'd be a sticky mess in his underwear.

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  • You seem to have a lot of problems with guys going soft on you. I guess my pussy is more inviting because they all stay hard for me. Or maybe just younger.

  • You would notice that there would be cum inside you right? What makes him soft maybe he’s just tired or stress

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  • Ejaculating without noticing happened to me when I was in my teens and tapered off by 20 at the very latest. It's definitely possible, although each guy is different and his innate physiology and mental condition both play a role. That said: your guy may be suffering ED or performance anxiety which is not the same as unnoticed discharge.

  • Some guys can have a dry orgasm... it also could be precum or he may have an ED issue.

  • Yes, of course, it's always possible. Were you using condoms? It's one way to see if he ejaculated.

    I guy can leak precum without knowing it but not sperm (I'm pretty sure) because that requires an orgasm which is always felt (even if it's not even a great orgasm).

  • Sure is possible. Has happened to me on ocassion.

  • Yes it can happen where you can have a minimal orgasm and a small amount of cum leaks out.

  • Yes we can leak. It's called precum. It happens when we get excited.

  • you're just a huge turn off. that's all.

  • Not likely.

  • may his couck dripped some drops of sperm but real cum he must feel and reach it

  • Yes it can happen

  • I'm not always aware when I'm leaking precum, but I don't leak cum without knowing it.

  • Yes its absolutly possible. Its happened to me before