Can a guy find a girl gorgeous but not want to have sex with her?

Say you think she’s really pretty and you stare. Can a woman be really attractive but unfuckable to you?
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  • Believe it or not, this is something I've talked about with male buddies several times and you will find that most men experience this with some women over time. I certainly have. Oddly enough, some women we meet who are very attractive just don't strike the sexual longing in us. Not sure why or how, I just know that with some of these women something just doesn't click like that for us. It doesn't even necessarily mean she's doing something wrong, it's just that there's something about her beauty that doesn't ignite lust. And that can be a good thing sometimes.

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  • I think it's more between having a relationship and having sex. You can have a friend who you find attractive, but since you know their personality and values are incompatible with you in a romantic relationship, you know such a relationship would not work. But if you both can keep romantic thoughts away, a physical companionship is still possible.

    You can find someone attractive but not want a romantic relationship with them.

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  • you mean like a family member?

  • looks vs sexiness? yea, i think its possible. i know many women who are fine in the face but... lol... not sexy at all...

  • Yes very easily.

    the first one is if I have zero emotional connection, it’s not happening.

    if she’s toxic, it’s not happening.

    if she’s a friend

    if she’s not single

    Etc

  • Sure.. just cause someone is attractive does not mean I have to have sex with her. I'm happily married... sure sex with the other girl might be fun but a commitment is just that.

  • Yes, because if her personality isn't pretty I'm not interested.

  • Yes. Since I would only do that within a relationship, if there was a reason that I thought she wouldn't be a good match for me for a LTR, then she would be "unfuckable" for me. I would have no interest in her.

  • That's 99% of the women I've ever met. Gorgeous but not going anywhere with me.

  • Yes, but not out of a lack of attraction but rather inaccessibility.

  • Sure, there are simps out there who'd rather worship than conquer.

  • Yeah. "Sexy" is a different thing from "beautiful."

  • Pretty doesn't always mean attractive.

  • Yeah, if she has a terrible attitude or is not attracted to me. I see beautiful girls all the time at work. I'm not attracted to her if she isn't attracted to me.

  • Yes, if she acts like a bitch.

  • Bad personality.
    Not on the bright side.
    Finding out she’s a drunk/smoker.
    One or both of you is already married.
    There’s definitely possible reasons. Bad traits can’t be fixed by prettiness.

  • Of course

  • Yes, it can be true.
    Mainly for friends and all though.
    I have a friend who's a girl and she gives me dating advice and all and we both love each other, and mind me she is really beautiful.
    But the point is sex is just for physical needs only and well can not be done with people whom you love in a friendly way.

  • Ya, with your sister.

  • Yeah, because her body comes with her personality

  • yes , like he find out she have std , for example

  • Being married I find girls attractive without wanting to fck.

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