Yes. You can be overweight and still attractive to someone. And more to you than physical appearance also. Personality can be huge (like a guys for you). Everyone focuses on the physical, and yes we are visual, but we are also human beings, and that doesn't mean personality doesn't matter to us, or that looks are the only thing that matters.
Maybe some guys can sleep with women they aren't attracted to, but I can't. There has to be something there. But I can be attracted to many things and some things are more important. It always makes me think of one woman I had a huge crush on in high school. She was overweight, but GORGEOUS. Beautiful face, very nice person. I can't remember if she wasn't single, or I just didn't have the courage to approach, but I had a huge crush on her.
Both things can be true. Don’t use erection as a measurement of how attracted someone is to you. I have erections at random times of the day. I have erections when I touch myself in a certain way. It’s not scientific. Still it could very well be that these men were in fact attracted to you. They decided to have sex with you.
Most importantly, being overweight has nothing to do with attraction. You can have a belly and still be very attractive. Women of all weights and body types are attractive. I understand you’re self-conscious because there is a lot of fat-phobia going around. It just means that some people are less likely to admit their attraction. It’s bullsh*t if you ask me. When someone thinks you’re good looking or acts attracted to you, you can believe them.
Many guys love bigger girls. If you want to lose weight for your own reasons, then do so. But don't change just to just to get more guys, because you can get as much dick just the way you are.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Men and getting erections is a very complex thing. It's not always down to attraction, thats not to say that they weren't attracted to you, but it not a guaranteed sign that they are either.
They're still attracted and aroused by you, yes.
Depends what's happening. But yes, it can happen
Attraction is 90% non visual. Our subconscious tells us they like a person based on past experience, memories etc. I’m highly attracted to standup comedians of all shapes.
It was a one night stand
Don’t see that as relevant. As I say, attraction is subconscious.
Yes he can, errection is not related to attraction
I believe they are attractive to you
Guys don't need to be attracted to get an election
Really?
Guys sleep with women they aren't attracted to all of the time. They only have higher standards when it comes to commitment, marriage or anything long-term.
I know I couldn't.
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