Can a guy get so excited he can't get hard?

[Anonymous]

So me and my bf have been together 2 months we have sex all the time. Last night I surprised him with hooker boots and corset outfit. He seemed turned on but he could not get hard. He said he doesn't like surprises he wasn't ready for it. He said he got too excited to get it up? is that possible to be too excited and not able to stay hard? We are both in our 20s and he was drunk but he didn't have issues getting hard while drunk in the past.

[kaylaS91]

I don't think his issue in getting hard had much to do with being surprised, if at all. If it was due to that, he would probably quickly get over the surprise and all would be well quite quickly. With my boyfriend, I know that when he's been drinking it takes him longer to orgasm from any sort of sexual contact. Alcohol dulls sensations, so I'd attribute his problem to that versus anything else.

In the 2 months that you've been together, he has never previously had an issue with getting hard, right?

[Asker]

I kinda thought so too it was just a huge hit to my self esteem. Like what guy doesn't like to be surprised with sexy outfits. But then a little later once I changed out of it and we had a smoke he got hard. And passed out during sex I'm going to guess he was just really wasted and didn't admit how drunk he Wally was to me.

[SüßeJäger]

Emotions can play a role in how your junk reacts. I've never had that problem but a couple times, I was nervous when I was with someone the first time and I couldn't finish. I had to fake it and get rid of the condom without her seeing. It had nothing bad to do with her, quite the opposite. I liked her so much, I was nervous our first time and just couldn't get there.

[kalrodkal]

No that doesn't happen. Sometimes men just can't get an erection every once in a while

[mario1321]

No, when im excited the opposite happens