Can a guy who is used to having sex right away wait for sex if the girl is special to him?

I am a virgin and he is not ! He is used to girls throwing themselves at him and wanting sex right away. I am more old fashioned and want to wait till I am comfortable and trust someone ! He claims that he can wait for sex but I am not sure! He claims i am different than the other girls and he is willing to wait but I don't wait to get invested if he is just gonna disappear if it doesn't happen right away!
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  • If he is genuinely into you he can wait. 💜

    • How can i tell he is genuine?

    • Time. That's all

  • I think he will try to convince you anyways

    • How?

  • Yes if he’s mature and finds the relationship special.

  • If he thinks it's worth the wait

  • Yes, of course!

  • That would depend on the girl and what she would allow.

  • Handjobs and blowjobs included in that? Or is it just seX it itself

    • Just sex itself

  • Of course I can wait, doesn't have to be penetrative sex immediately. There are loads of ways. Only when you're comfortable, you do it.

  • I am a virgin as well, but i was told by many girls they just had to let their virginity go because the male's got tired of waiting. Some was forced to have sex and some didn't want to see their boyfriend disappear. 87% of male's can't wait for the female to be ready, only 13% of male's in the world could wait. Most male's disappear either way after having sex to another female, My advice you should do what you think is right?

  • If she's a virgin sure I would wait if I cared about her