Can a man be a dominant and yet enjoy sharing his wife with other men?

[Shreya_bj_Shiry]

[chrissykerdock]

i don't think too many men period would ever say to their friend you can fuck her or she'll give you head... they'd get too jealous and couldn't stand it... i really believe that... if you notice ladies a lot of men don't even like it when you talk to their friend too much... just the nature of men they're jealous bastards... so i wouldn't spend too much time on this fantasy because that's what it is just a fantasy... it sounds exciting in theory but not going to happen... swinging might be something you should look into... i did that once pretty exciting and fun... but by way of emotional feelings not much there... at least for me... i'd rather go one on one with a man even if it is just giving him a blowjob.

[fjh80]

No!
What the hell kind of self respect man shares his woman with another man?

You can't be taking your relationships very seriously, or maybe you don't value your woman if she's something you can share.
The person you love should be so important to you, that only you can't stand the idea of another man putting his hands on her. She's supposed to be something special to you. She should be the centre of your life. She supposed to be the part of your life that you respect and value.

Also, that way of thinking should go both ways.

If you're in a situation where you're with someone and you're just having fun or you want to try something different or kinky, then fine. You do you.
But if they're someone important to you then no.

[anupamagrawal]

The problem with most men is that they are dominant for their partner to an extent. And the one who is really a dominant one would never think about sharing his asset with anyone else. Though he would sure love to share the bed with other girls but would never like to share his girl with another man. It sure sound wrong - but men will be men.

[fjh80]

Word bruh... But switching it like that, flips the yes toon. In that case the question would be, “ladies (something something share your man?”

[Coulis]

Perhaps he doesn't have a very high opinion of women in general. They are for use less as companions.

[MrOracle]

It seems that a few can, but most cannot.

[julesrod98]

My hubs is a former college athlete and American lawyer. I've seen him whip ass in bar fights. He likes me fucking other men and at the same time can fuck me harder than anyone. He's been cucked and also been the Dom. Married 24 years with wonderful family and no plans on breaking up. Lots of one dimensional guys with limited imagination who only know conventional lifestyles. Good reasons for single-dimension, conventional life. Moral beliefs as well.

But the macho bug shot talk about denigrating alternative lifestyles usually guarantees one thing - small dick syndrome LOL.

Be original - construct a moral argument, religios argument, social argument against the post, not a boring macho post simply proving your limitations lol.

[jaybee281]

If she has such a fantasy and she must do it - then she can do it of course - she'd first have to bag up and leave.. Men don't share their wives - there is a reason we like virgins and single mothers end up dying alone - I mean maybe sissies do.. If that's how your husband is like he'll be okay with it

[DaisyM23]

Yeah

[HugoThe2nd]

Yup, people have many different kinks, sharing is not just about cuckold.
Other people can be introduced as part of BDSM, for example.

[AndyOh]

Sure, a Dominant man can share his submissive wife with other men.
That is being Dominant.

[The_Maphio]

It's actually dominants that share their partner. Being taken in the middle of two men pumping like a water purification facility is bound to have the woman submit completely, much to a dominant man's pleasure.
Submissives that do similar things are called cucks.

[jaybee281]

Dominants don't share partners pal - sissies do

[Bricealan]

I would not like THAT particular type of sharing. Has/had to be a close male friend that knew both of us well

[Gwenhwyfar]

Yes. I think that can be true. Is that the case with your boyfriend?

[Shreya_bj_Shiry]

No. He is dominant. Don't know what he thinks about other thing

[Gwenhwyfar]

Tbh I think it’s unlikely though. Most dominant guys are very possessive and don’t wanna share (all my rl bf’s have been this way). I would think this is especially true in your culture. He probably doesn’t wanna share you and if he does it will be on his terms and probably a one time thing (which still could be kinda hot).

[Andres77]

@gwenhwyfar Have you ever even fantasized about that?

[PinkHamster]

I don’t think that a true man who loves his girl, would share her with any other man under any condition. If my boyfriend would share me with another man it would be the end of our relationship. 💕✨🤢

[jaybee281]

I almost lost hope in people reading these comments - finally someone with some common sense for fuck's sake..

[PinkHamster]

@jaybee281 thank you ✨😊

[bowenw]

I don't think so in most circumstances unless it is treated as a punishment in a roleplay that both him and her enjoy.

[anon1903]

Most men won't be comfortable. Territorial issues, ig.

[Ripper_E]

Yea. Every one has something that gets them off, often no rhyme or reason. It just does. There are women that really fantasize about getting rape, when we all know how traumatizing rape can be.

[KirstyW]

Easily, yes.

[Shreya_bj_Shiry]

Talking that from experience?

[KirstyW]

Maybe :)

[TCredo]

Interesting question... I think like most every type there are degrees and variations. I am of a dominant type and my wife is submissive. While I have fantasized about it, not sure I'd actually do sharing or something with my wife - but I could easily see me wanting to do that with a woman. It's actually a big fantasy of mine.

[TCredo]

@shreya_bj_shiry thanks for the well timed "like" :)

[Not_Average]

The reality is that men who share their wives are beta males. They aren’t these confident self assured men. They have some serious insecurities and are exploiting it for thrill. No respect for a man who does this.

[FilmGuy93]

I guess it's possible, although that would certainly be an interesting combination! I would think that is quite rare.

[Angelo75]

It'll short-circuit a dominant mans brain.
Many times a dominant man have a feeling of "owning" a woman. Well in bed anyways.
But if he's owning a woman and the woman is with another man there, how can she be "owned" by 2 men.

Maybe he could do some kind of MMF where the second man would be slightly less dominant. Like "his helper" or something like that.

It'll just be difficult.

[chriscdi]

uh i dont think so

[Andres77]

Quite, yes.