Can a man enjoy sex with a virgin girl?

Some girls said that virgins are terrible in bed
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my second question is. If it is enjoyable then why does their inexperience matter?
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  • Well realistically both for men and women sex is actually quite horrible as a virgin; because you don’t know what you’re doing quite yet at that point you’re just figuring that out.

    Hopefully any virgin whether male or female is able to find the slightly experienced, compassionate partner that is willing to take time to educate in the ways of sex.

    That being said I always tell people during there first time to take it slow. Take time to explore your partner a bit. Enjoy the moment of exploring and go only as fast as your comfortable it makes the actual penetrative aspects a lot easier to handle both physically and more importantly mentally.

    So to answer your question more specifically yes a man can and most likely will enjoy sex with a virgin female and visa versa. That being said one one should either be someone who will guide and teach with great patients, or in the case in which one is the virgin to try and find someone who will take time with you.

    Well that’s my opinion I hope it’s been helpful.

    • To answer your second question inexperience can be difficult to handle. A more experienced person may and often simply don’t want to take on the task teaching. That has more to do with people but some people are more patient, some people aren’t, and some just don’t want to have to deal with it. It’s difficult Enough controlling our own urges trying to manage someone else’s And having to teach them how to control themselves can be a chore to many. Which is why it’s important to find somebody that is willing to be patient, is willing to take the time, and ultimately is willing to teach. Unfortunately not everyone in their search for a compatible partner is so lucky. Keep in mind in an ideal world concepts of impatience and greediness in the department of sex Wouldn’t necessarily be a thing. unfortunately we don’t Live in a Ideal world and we have to every day learn how to deal with each other and thats just life. So it’s important take your time to find someone right for you and only you; because ultimately it’s your body and you should share it with the person you must believe is right for you. I hope my words are understood and that you are granted the best of fortune in finding the right one for yourself. Good luck.

  • The girls that i took their virginity.

    1st : Ex-gf, she wasn't my first.
    2nd : Ex-wife.
    3rd : A girl I met off CL.
    4th : A girl off Tinder.
    5th : ONS from a bar.

    1st & 2nd, were under 21 when I did them, I enjoyed it. They not so much.

    3rd, she was 27, unlike the previous 2 where their first times I limited myself to 4-5" and it went slowly inside her the first few times, I inserted my 6" of my penis into her in the first stroke into her. 3rd stroke I put the effort to go all into her. I enjoyed the experience.

    4th and 5th, though virgin I did not do them as if they were virgin and I enjoyed the experience.

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  • I think most guys will say yes, although the first time hurts a bit for most virgin girls.

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  • If he knows, he can have a great time if she decides to be enthusiastic about learning from him and goes at it with gusto.

  • Sometimes, I think, virgin girls might just be like "OMG, why did I wait so long for this?" - Then again, maybe sometimes, not so much...

  • Been there, done that. It was great sex.

  • Fuck yes!

  • It's not about the sex or how good/bad she is. It's about the bonding with her and the personal closeness between you two.

  • I'd hate to have sex with a virgin. I do not what that kind of responsibility and destroying her hopes and dreams of that connection she made with me. A girls first is waaaaay more special than a guys first most of the time.

  • I personally don't like having sex with virgin women.

  • Listen up. Good news ahead.
    Yes.
    You can be the most awkward, incompetent sexual partner but of you have a cheerful, willing attitude, you will do just fine. We don't need Mata Hari. We just want to feel loved.

    • Dargil: Well said.

  • I take control anyway, so if she would just tell me that she's inexperienced or a virgin, I'd take it easy on her and make her really enjoy all the things she wants to try.
    I like virgins who are curious about things they've seen in porn, or heard about from friends. If they even do a bit of searching to find specific imagery of things that they would like to try, that's even better.

  • I don't care if she's terrible in bed. I want to be with her and I'm with her. That's all that matters to me.
    And even though I would do it regardless, because she's a virgin, my entire focus would be on making it enjoyable for her.

  • of cours why not, no experience? fuck the experience pussy is still pussy virgin or not

  • Yep.

  • Yes but it a ton of extra work

    • codycccccccccc: Been there, and to call it work. Well, it was the best and most fun work I ever did.

  • Only if she's hot/pretty. Same as with a non-virgin girl.

  • If ya have a tiny dick and it was the only pussy you could get. I've had a couple virgins and I can tell ya, it fucking sucks. I don't recommend it.

    • haha why?

    • Both times was like I was fuckin a dead body. I'm too active and vigorous for that.

    • passive and inexperinced are not the same thing though

  • I'm sure I would.

  • Of course he can

    And if he's a good man the virgin woman can also enjoy sex with him

  • Innocence is attractive. Sex, you can always navigate well - the nature and the reflex sort everything out

    • It is really difficult to deal with someone who is behind a wall of jadedness. We've all been disappointed in life, but then many people get stuck in a hole and refuse to get out of it unless they find someone who will pull them out - except that someone can't just do it, they have to wait for the person to get un-angry at themselves. And it is REALLY difficult to watch someone you think is otherwise great be stuck in that jadedness space - you are not allowed to help but you suffer with them just the same.

    • I don't get you lol

    • Which is your benefit. So I've just described a common jaded woman experience (more related to being in your 30s after a failed relationship (or relationships) - and you don't even know what that it, which is a big plus for being a virgin, I guess you won't be able to understand it/understand the benefits of your own position - I'm not sure I can say more, it taken knowing someone in a lot more detail to be able to say what is going on. Looking at sexuality as something that is not to be ashamed of, one would hope that is a conversation you could have with one or both of your parents (how the way you get treated by others affects you, what to do, what to avoid, and how to deal with any fallouts you might experience). For joy and happiness not much help or instruction is needed, obviously. Just some info on how to not overdo it/over-expect grand things when what is coming is coming from a person - and a person can never be grand/greater than life for longer than some moments.

  • Why not?

  • Yes.

    • It depends on the guy Why you ask?

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