Can a man enjoy sex with a virgin girl?

Some girls said that virgins are terrible in bed
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my second question is. If it is enjoyable then why does their inexperience matter?
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  • not possible always. but if he make her ready properly then possible.

  • There’s a weird desire for “pure” girls by older men, obvi. So if you’re a virgin I’d imagine a lot of doors are open. But honestly, having a good “first time” has a good affect on psyche. I’d find another virgin and lose your cherries together.

  • All men love sex even bad sex. If u are upfront and the guy isn't a youngster it will be awesome

    • Inexperience has nothing to do with having sex with a virgin, sometimes pain or discomfort can keep both parties from achieving a orgasm.

  • Of course he can. I see no reason why he can't.

  • Yeah,

  • I know I would

  • oh yes i would

  • If he cums then he cums

  • Depends. If the guy is packing then probably not. After a few sessions together then maybe.

  • My girlfriend and I were both virgins before getting together, but we did some research (both online and personally asking more experienced friends of ours) and were willing to try out different things and communicate what worked and what didn't, which made it very enjoyable.

  • Yes. That would be my preference.
    It's not a question of "how good they are." That's not what makes it enjoyable.

    • "If it is enjoyable then why does their inexperience matter?" 1. Because having past partners is an *unattractive quality* to have. The fewer the better. Just like if she's too fat or is she smells very bad or if she's a really mean person, etc, having past partners just an unattractive quality to have and it turns most guys off. Out of practicality, many guys will be willing to look the other way to some extent but if there was too many partners then he's going to not want to be with her at all and the fewer partners she has the better, with zero being the ideal. 2. It makes the sex more personalized and special. It also becomes a sort of *teaching or exploratory* thing. It's the joy of teaching someone, not just teaching someone something, but teaching them something really fun and personal; then seeing them love it. That's very intimate. Also tangential to that is exploration. Even if a guy is also inexperienced you get to learn together, you get to explore mutually and figure things out; and that's really fun and intimate too. Every little thing is special, if you're both virgins and have never kissed anyone before then sharing a first kiss with this person you really like is a crazy intense thing. Even if you're a guy who isn't a virgin you can still appreciate all of that with a virgin girl. Eventually you get to sex, but everything up to and including sex and beyond is this deeply personal and special thing when there's no previous partners. Women don't often seem to feel that way about being with a virgin guy, and that's fine I guess, if they're fine with guys having partners then that's fine I guess, but a guy is going to be looking at the women with the fewest partners for a relationship.

    • Conversely to how women seem to feel about it, I just don't find anything that appealing about an experienced woman. Even if being "better" at sex mattered, well I'd rather an inexperienced girl get better with me. After a year in a relationship, she'd be average experience (again, if it mattered), and I think more importantly she would be more experienced with me specifically. I don't want to be reminded of how many dicks you've sucked by getting blown with your "pro" technique that gets all guys off. I'd rather a bespoke blow job, thank you very much. The bottom line, is that inexperience just has all the positive aesthetics guys like.

  • I don't think that it's more about a man enjoy sex but rather them feeling connected with a woman especially if they are in a serious relationship