Can a man go years without having sex with a woman?

Question

My significant other took an overseas job but actually spent a lot of time over there. His contract was 4 years. He swear up and down that he hasn’t had sex with anyone while he was there. He said he hasn’t had sex with anyone during the 4 years. His job is a high intelligence job in law enforcement overseas. I don't know if I should believe him

RespectfulGuy · Accepted Answer

One of men's greatest weakness is the temptation of sex. Throughout history, in all known civizations, it has caused kingdoms to rise and fall,

This is how powerful the desire for sex is to men.

But in like manner, men fought bravely and dared death in wars big and small for one thing: love, particularly the love for his woman.

Yes, if he loves you, then he will endure a sexless life for you. I called it "saving all my sperm for you (my wife)" 😁

To conclude, the forces are great. Great enough to face the threat of war and death. What's left is trust. Do you trust him? If you do, then he endured it, for you.

SnowedIn · Accepted Answer

Absolutely. Particularly with a job like that. It doesn't mean he enjoyed it. But masturbation could have tided him over.

Alli39 · Accepted Answer

If you've got a solid relationship then feel free to trust him. It's not like dudes will keel over if they don't have sex lol.

godfatherfan · Answer

Of course. I went my first 19 years without having sex. I haven't had sex in just a bit over 4 years right now. Doesn't bother me at all.

Billlewis · Answer

I haven't had any penetrative sex with a woman for more than twenty years now, and I'm honestly happier than I've ever been.

MementoMori777 · Answer

I'm 22 years invested so far so I believe him if he's a loyal dude and loves you, I'm sure he spends a lot of time doing military shit anyways

Dargil · Answer

Yes we can. Yes you should. Did you go without male companionship for 4 years?

RealMarek · Answer

Yes, it’s possible. I was in a bad marriage with very little sex and after divorce I didn’t have sex for several years.

Deformate · Answer

I have, lots of guys have. Its not something we can't do, its just incredibly frustrating.

Redstang88 · Answer

Well not happily, but we  can

smilelots · Answer

I did go two and a half years before I was with a woman when my x and I split if you love someone you can wait ,, same goes for you can you go without do you have phone sex or cam sex with you mate if not maybe you should. at least talk about it. good luck have fun and enjoy life.

jwmiller95 · Answer

Probably has a spittoon by his bedside

jahaims · Answer

Duh.

Shamalien · Answer

I’d say at least half of us will or have at some point in our lives

Twalli · Answer

If you don't trust him, you shouldn't be in a relationship with him

In_Trance · Answer

What are you getting at here; you don't trust him? Have you railed other guys?

OddBeMe · Answer

We shouldn’t, but we do.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Anyone can but it's hard

Raaj4you · Answer

It's not impossible but it's tough. I tried to control my sexual urges for 10 months.

Bananas83 · Answer

I'm married, went 2 years without it. We were in a tough spot and became like roommates. But we got things turned around and now we have it once a week sometimes twice. I don't know how strong your relationship is with him but if it is, then you gotta take his word.

dolemite58 · Answer

ya there’s monks that are celibate that are perfectly healthy. People forget sex really is mainly for procreation, contraception has given us the luxury of being able to just have sex for fun.