Can a man sleep in same bed with a woman and not have sex?

I am thinking bout going on vacation with a guy friend. Sharing a room and bed would be cheaper. I can sleep in same bed and not get horny. But I don't know if a guy could do it. I dont want to sex

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  • I have done that for one night at a time. A new girlfriend and I were going somewhere early the next morning and it was much more convenient to spend the night at my apartment, but she wasn't ready to have sex with me, so I promised her it wouldn't happen. And it didn't, even though she got in bed wearing just panties and a cutoff tee-shirt and then spooned herself into my crotch. If we had spent a second night together, I expect that I would have been all over her, and in her.

    Regardless of what the guy says, if he is attracted to you, this is unfair to do to him.

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  • Sure, that's what marriage is all about.

    Fuck like bunnies before marriage.

    Everything shuts down after.

    Here's an old, somewhat offensive joke: "How do you get a __________ girl to stop fucking? Marry her."

    I'll let you fill in the blank for the adjective but the joke is typically associated with a specific ethnic group.

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  • You have the power to discuss this ahead of time. And you have the power to say no.
    However, as a woman, I would never do that to a quality friend. It’s like torture to him.
    save enough money to get two rooms. Or get two beds.
    as an adult, it’s call being respectful yo each others space.
    as well…get a boyfriend to go travel…more fun.

  • ? why would he make a move on you there? unless he has made a move on you before that you turned down? i highly doubt you'll be getting some, don't flatter yourself lol. you do know that most hotels, even the cheap ones, come with a couch?

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  • Absolutely can. You have the ability to say no. It’s plain and simple

  • You might wake up with a wet ass cheek like i did 😂 He still claims he didn't jerk off on me while i slept but Mmm…

  • I don't know if this guy can do that without getting hard, but I think it's possible, at least if you haven't walked around half-naked bevor gioing to bed.

  • I've done it many times with my female best friend. Never had sex once.

  • Just exercise self-control, and set some boundaries and be clear. There are plenty of couples who do not have sex every night. I'm sure that the two of you can handle it.

  • Its possible , but if I were him I'd certainly have plans to have a decent crack ( on the assumption he attracted to you ) , so its a conversation you need to have with him really , its also possible to get twin beds in the room.

    But go into with eyes wide open , the try is going to at least have a crack.

  • Well I used to sleep with my girlfriend at the early stage and we didn’t have sex so it doesn’t mean it’s necessarily going to end up in sex even though it can and has a high chance it happens especially for the guy since its a vacation but it depends on the man!!

  • yes but i bet he wouldn't be happy about it

  • It's possible depends on how he feels about you it could play to his expectations.

    If he is ok with it platonically be ready to get jabbed in the Robb's accidentally we gave little control over the little chap some times!

  • Oh, of course! I've done that hundreds of times, and I've never had any problems.

  • Yes.


  • Of course.

    It obviously depends on the guy though. I only have 3 guy friends that I can sleep in the same bed platonically.

  • And for your next stupid ridiculous question! smh

  • It's called spooning... LOLOL Try it,... Naked !!! LOL

  • Doesn't seem like a good idea if you are trying to avoid that from happening

  • Sure. I've done exactly that without issues. Of course every guy is different and you never know ever they will think but if he's your friend you should have a good feeling on if he will make a move or not

  • I sure can and have done it hundreds of times. AND, we were both completely naked AND snuggled up to each other 99.98% of the time!!

  • Yes, been with a guy friend in similar situations.

    But depends on the guy for sure.

  • It's possible. If he thinks you're unattractive then it's very possible.

  • Yes. Its not a problem. If she's not in the mood then she's not in the mood. Said and done.

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