Can a straight male be sexually attracted to a trans woman?

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Explain why or why not

TCredo · Accepted Answer

Couple of upfront disclaimers. First, I am heteroromantic bisexual. I haven't and don't see myself having a romantic relationship with a guy - and while I've never been with a guy, I do have certain sexual desires (thus the bi part). Second, I am friends with a couple of transgendered women - both look as "passable" as the girl in your picture and both are in the porn/modeling industry.

Whenever I spent time with either of them (including dinner dates, beach trips, going to shows or sport events, etc. and yes sexual activities), I always felt like I was with a woman as it was how they looked, behaved, thought, etc. When it came to sex, I totally get how someone would say the fact they have a penis makes you bi/gay - but to me, it really didn't matter - I still felt like I was with a woman (I am sure many won't agree but it's opinion...)

I know transgender porn is pretty popular - more so than statistics reflect how many bi guys there are. So that suggests many "straight" guys are into trans girls - or maybe they have some bi tendencies but want to keep them secret. I'd suggest like what you like and not get caught up in labels. If you identify as "straight" but you like trans girls, so be it... enjoy.

What I've also learned is how many guys hit on these girls - but want to do so in secret. Big names too - celebs, athletes, big wig business folks, etc. It's both sad and funny - if the # of folks who follow or solicit the trans girls were to make it known publicly, I doubt there would still be such a stigma. It exists now because of how hidden it is all kept. Pretty sad actually. When I've been with the girls I mentioned, I did so without hesitation in all sorts of very public settings - but that was rare for both of them.

And I've learned how important it is for the girls to make sure the guy knows they are trans before anything sexual starts to happen. This can be life or bodily harm threatening if the guy freaks out after the "surprise". While many guys are into trans girls, there are many more who are not... some to the extreme.

Side note: Many top tippers and followers are from deep red states like Alabama which is generally a place a trans girl would not feel comfortable visiting but, ironically, they see lots of money from places like that. Another both sad and funny aspect to all this...

I've probably rambled too much and cluttered my points - but I do have lots of experience and thoughts on the topic and believe I am good trans ally. If you're asking this question for reassurance that it is OK as a "straight" guy to be sexually attracted to a trans woman, I'd suggest, yes, of course - like I said... like what you like :)

TonyV · Accepted Answer

I'm gonna say yes, addie there is in a bikini and looks like a woman, attraction is based on looks.

Nothing is inherently gay about anal sense people can and do do that with women anyways.

So penis or not I wouldn't call any guy that anal fucls a transwoman gay.

If he plays with (strokes) her penis we're kind of bluring lines at that point,.

if her penis enters his butt things get real fuzzy.

If he sucks her penis I think we are firmly in bi or bi curious territory.

But she is smooth and hairless, body has the nice feminine curves, has breasts now hard tonsay she's not a woman with all the work she's put in.

What if your with a transwoman who has a vagina now?

Also like others have said transwoman equals woman.

I dont think it makes you gay to be attracted cause you may not even know just from looking at her not naked. Indont even think your gay to have sex with a transwoman that has a penis.

To straight guys bothered by the penis and that it was born male, just kind of curious would you have aex with a trans man? Born a woman still has a vagina but not has an outer male appearance?

In my opinion that would be more gay even then tho he has a real vagina.

hotfirework · Accepted Answer

Yes you certainly can be straight and attracted to a trans woman because although they are not biologically women they appear as women which is what is attractive to you.

beebella · Accepted Answer

Sure, tons of straight men are.

MrOracle · Answer

I certainly cannot be, and I know many other straight men are not - but some are. And that's fine.

What's important to understand is that straight men are not OBLIGATED to be attracted to trans women, despite many trans women's insistence otherwise.

MostlyOwain · Answer

It really depends on each person's priorities. A gay man can be into a trans woman because he prioritises dick, but a straight man can be into a trans woman because he prioritises boobs. I think you'd have better luck with open and easygoing straight men than most gay men though, you pass  very very  well.

centerline · Answer

yes... no matter the reason or desire.

we never know what is going to be attractive to us, or when... we may detest the thought of it when we are young, and as we grow older and more accepting of different things, we may find ourselves very attracted to it... and this applys not only to trans women, but EVERYTHING else in out lives. its a normal part of life.

SarahsSummer · Answer

sure. Because boobs

JackSmy · Answer

Why is this such an issue, mostly for guys?
Seriously, if she is trans, and you meet her, and thing she is a woman, and you like her, and she is so much like a woman, that you never think she is anything but a woman, why does it matter, when she tells you?
Is it because she might be 'trans' and keep her penis? or is it because of some biased opinions, and judgments, based on other's perceptions, judging, and OMG, what would happen, if they found out you really cared for a person that you got to know, and care about?

boomstheory · Answer

I don't like men but I get an erection when I see trans girls naked. Like I'm NOTTTT homosexual. But a woman with a big cock doesn't turn me off. Doesn't feel eewwww. I mean is it gay to be pegged by a woman

Tamera952 · Answer

Sure can... there is a niche for everyone, and always exceptions to the rule. But this one is more common than you'd think. (Haven't you seen Madame Butterfly or The Crying Game?)

RolandCuthbert · Answer

Dude, this is the wrong forum for such a question.

Dansnlawlipop · Answer

I believe so. Straight man = attracted to women (do not confuse with  female ) Trans  women  = women

Kaneki05 · Answer

Of course sometimes there is no way to tell unless if you take a look at them pants. Which don't make you gay you just literally thought they were a girl. Because they have made them selves look so close.

TraceyByrd · Answer

That's a trans?

sensible27 · Answer

Because... biology?

Reaperbot666 · Answer

if your a guy who is into trans girls pre-op or post-op. then your most likely Bi or gay. but just don't fully notice it yet. nothing wrong with being a Bi or gay male. if that is what you like and/or find attractive. because trans girls started out in a boys body. however with makeup and modern medical science. it can be harder to tell if their a natural female or not. when you first look at them at least.

Rexos · Answer

Trans women are women and if you're attracted to someone's feminine beauty, you're attracted to women.
If you're specifically attracted to woman who have male genitals, that's still being attracted to a women, plus something else. I wouldn't call it bisexuality yet since it doesn't mean you're fully attracted to men, just one aspect of them.
Sexuality is way more complex then most people realize.
And people should stop being obsessed with what label they're put under. It shouldn't matter if you technically count as straight or not.

Ripper_E · Answer

If he identifies himself as a straight man, then yes he is straight. Yes, technically attracted to a man, but in his mind, its a woman with a penis because of she did not resemble a woman, it would be different.

Vulture051 · Answer

Guys are super visual, if you look like a girl that's often enough for a guy.

93_n_on · Answer

No. And no I'm not into transgender people and no it doesn't mean I hate them.

WhereAmI · Answer

Anything is possible. Hell, I don't even understand why some people are into getting pooped on during sex. 😂

Grotty · Answer

Trans women can sometimes look very convincing but heterosexual would be turned off and most probably angry if they took on of these women home and found out she is not really a female.

coolaboola · Answer

Yes. I would date a trans if s/he was convincing. My friends with benefits has a trans sister and s/he is savage hot

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