Can a valuable relationship really come out of a dating app?

I've decided I'm going to come out of my hibernation period and put myself out there, and I started with dating apps.

To my surprise, it was fairly easy to land a couple of dates lol. I met guy A and guy B.

Guy A

Pros: calls and texts me all the time / listened to me when I was upset / 30 years old with a stable career and lives out and inspires me to do well in my career / Fit

Cons (after I went on a date with him): bad hygiene / stingy / overly horny and made me feel uncomfortable / hinted he's a cheater

Guy B

Pros: good looking / respectful

Cons: no personality / mama's boy / doesn't listen to me

At this point I don't even know if I should go back on dating apps and go on a few more dates? Am I really going to find someone that I can share a valuable relationship with?

Realistically speaking, I am dating to get married and I don't know if this is the right way to do it.

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  • Yes, you can absolutely find a valuable relationship through dating apps. I've got married friends who met their spouses on a dating app.

    That being said... just like "dating" (without an app), sometimes you might have to wade-through a fair number of people who DON"T turn out to be 'valuable relationships' before ultimately finding what you're looking for. But a dating app is as good a place as any to look for potential partners. 🙂

Most Helpful Guy

  • It doesn't matter where and how will you find him, what matters is that you find your prince charming princess alyssa rapunzel 😊

    For sure you ain't gonna find someone 100% the way you like or dream because everyone is different 😄

    What matters is that you find a real man who will truly love you, takes good care of you and that you both have a lot of things in common...

Most Helpful Girls

  • dating to get married? DON'T use dating apps. some people use those for casual flings, hookups, friends with benefits, short relationships that just don't work out. going to be hard to find someone on a dating app that wants what you want, unless you pay for the service because that means the people are more serious.

    • Yeah I mean guy B wants to get married but he's a mamas boy. He hasn’t even put it in effort to get to know me, to him it’s all about what his mum would think of me and how she’d love me... I’ve been on one date and he already wants me to meet his mum to see what she thinks of me. Ridiculous.

  • Yes they can work, I know a few people that are still in long term relationships. 2.5 years, another friend got married. Just be careful I advise to video call before meeting incase they're a weirdo

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Thought you'd settled on Guy B and kicked A off?

    • A is long gone! Lol. In this instance guy A is a different guy and guy b is the same person.

    • Thinking you need to rethink your taste in men

    • Yeah I don’t like either guys in this scenario. This is just the men I've met off dating apps at the moment... wondering if it’s even worth going back.

  • It's very unlikely to happen, especially for marriage.

    The standard for marriage is likely to be very high, so you really should look elsewhere.

    I meet much better women randomly IRL than I ever did on dating apps.

  • I met my wife online 21 years ago.

    It can work. It just depends on the people.

    • Online or dating site?

    • that was also 21 years ago tho

    • Dating site called iwantu. com And 21 years ago you were WAY more likely to get a troll

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  • Two dates is not a valid sample size to assess the viability of dating through these apps. Gotta pump up those rookie numbers! 😛

  • Well after all it's a way of meeting people.. So it's always a hit or miss... But for most people it didn't amount to anything great

  • Yes. I have a friend who’s been with a guy for three years now and going strong.

  • I won't say that it's bad and wrong for everyone; but I'm not for it. It feels forced and artificial, real love should be found out there.

    • I totally feel the same way.

  • Get a dog more loyalty then any other guy and better personality and get on love honey website start shopping 🛍

  • With that woman in profile pic. Yes please. I want it with her.

    • Thanks for like!

    • You’re welcome

  • maybe

  • of course