Most guys think the act of penetration alone is what causes a girl to have an orgasm and equate that with when a girl gives a guy a handjob. Most guys have no idea what will give a girl an orgasm. Personally I have never fingered a girl unless she asked me to. I tend to "tickle" my fingers in circles around a girl's clit unless she asks me to do something different.
Maybe for young guys, but we old guys know how to touch a woman in the ways that she likes to be touched. Most of the touching should be on the "outside". When the woman is ready to be touched "inside" that will become obvious., including the woman saying "I want your finger in there, NOW!"
Remember, most guys don't have a clue what's going on between your legs. Yes, we all want to get there, but that doesn't mean that we know what to do once we're there. Speak up! Don't be afraid to instruct. I was fortunate to have been a young man (quite young) who fell into the hands of a much older woman. I learned a LOT from her! and all of it was useful Other young men may not have had the same education. Make it clear what you like, and what you don't like. One more thing; if you're his first girl, he will remember you until the day he dies. That's a powerful obligation.
Maybe he was just inexperienced, but when a guy fingered me it felt like a stick was jabbing into the walls of my vagina lol. He was kinda just awkwardly thrusting his hand upwards and I'm just here like: "more. 😐"
Guys like to make you think they have experience but don't. Sometimes you just have to show them, even if it embarrasses them. But after all, everyone is a novice at one time in their life.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!The reason is that most men don't understand the female anatomy and genitalia. Very rarely do you find men who know.
Well, are you TELLING him this? Are you under the impression that he'd know from fingering his own clitoris? How's he supposed to know if you don't tell him?
It completely depends.
Sometimes it's boring and pointless.
Sometimes it's a necessary precursor to something more.
And sometimes, if he knows what he's doing, and takes his time, it's amazing.
Yes true
I have been lucky, I have had many that know, and they know where and how to use them
Unfortunately you have to train them up.
I Think it's sucks that guys have not taken the time to learn anything's about the vagina or even girls I still believe 80% the guys still make it all about themselves I love making it all about her
I find it painful when my clit is rubbed.
@allison368 Jolly good for you in still being sexually active at 75 years of age, and long may you continue enjoying it. x
Some guys need a little coaching. Do not be afraid to show them how you do it.
teach them where the g spot is
My husband is a master. But it also helps that I tell him what and where I want to be touched. Communication is important, especially when his fingers are up in there.
@KatherineJ Naturally you have said everything that I would have said myself... Thank You. x
@EmmaMary anytime.
Well if the guy has farmers hands with hangnails, rough skin it’s probably akin to riding a cactus.
Maybe you don't tried me before
I agree.
Exception of my best root ever, god I want to fuck him again so bad..
I've brought a woman to orgasm with fingering, many times.
That's why it's important you show him. We don't have vaginas. We have no idea what it feels like for you. Just like you don't with us.
Agree
It depends on how they do it. I’ve had guys do it unpleasantly , and then guys that know how to do it correctly.
No maybe he's amateur
I can handle it better
Ew no thanks
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