Can being overweight effect how often you want to have sex?

[Jjpayne]

[SydneySentinel]

Not sure. It probably depends on how overweight you are and if you have a partner of the same size. That Lizzo chick gets pretty hyped on the stage, lots of energy and plays the flute while doing it. I'm not saying she is or isn't healthy, but she doesn't look like her size keeps her from doing anything.

[ChiTown33]

She also pretty young still. This is the bad thing about being in the public eye everything gets scrutinized. She's 5'10 and just over 300lbs. (i looked it up). If they're not proactive about it people tend to weigh more as they age.

[SydneySentinel]

Ah, I didn't consider her age. I'm not saying it's healthy!

[ChiTown33]

Well that's the thing health can change at the drop of a hat you can be 300lbs. And healthy. The question is for how long?

[ashleykoll]

Fat people don't necessarily love fat spouse or friends it's only their only person available

[SydneySentinel]

I have read that overweight/obese women do not like overweight/obese men. So you think they marry a similar person so they're not alone?

[ChiTown33]

I hope not. That's a horrible reason to marry someone. And as far as women preferring obese/ overweight or avg. Weight men i have no clue but i'd say it varies from woman to woman. I've seen women that admit they're overweight but won't accept a guy who's overweight. But according to one of my sisters she says " women just don't want to weigh more than rhe guy their with. That would suggest that larger women prefer larger men.

[SydneySentinel]

I think it's a horrible reason also. This is what I read...
whisper.sh/.../Plus-Sized-Women-Admit-They-Arent-Attracted-To-Overweight-Men

I was going to ask a question about it but I'm wiped out and don't have the brain capacity to formulate a decent thought.

It is a weird thing to weigh more than the guy you're with... I was 30lbs more than the last guy I dated but he was underweight and I was overweight (by BMI standards for both). I'm wicked tall so I'm pretty well distributed. I have dated a skinny guy, a fit guy, and two overweight guys. As long as we can be active and do outdoorsy type things, it doesn't matter. There is an extreme though... and you can't adjust your attraction to someone.

[ChiTown33]

Attraction is a funny thing isn't it. You could show me pictures of a dozen women and i could tell you which ones i find attractive but not why. And i've been attracted to women from 4'11 to 6'8" skinny to curvy. So i don't have a type. And it always makes me wonder how a woman genuinely would judge another woman weight wise vs. Me. I mean i say it's all in how a woman carries it. I worked with this woman that was 5'11 230lbs and she was an absolute knockout. And if she put on weight she just got more curvier. Yet medically she would have been classified as obese and most women i would tell that she weighed 230lbs. Would say she was fat.

[SydneySentinel]

That's true. People just hear the numbers and roll with it. I remember overhearing a guy in high school say he wouldn't date a girl over 130, and I was over 130and skinny as a rail. At the time though, I didn't give much thought to the numbers.

[SydneySentinel]

Thanks for the MHO

[Jjpayne]

You are welcome :)

[DorkVader]

Yes, because I'm overweight and I want it more than I get it lol

[DorkVader]

For the record, I'm gonna get on top, and I'm gonna sit on his face so I need a brave one. He might die, is all I'm saying.

[DorkVader]

Thanks for MHO

[Jjpayne]

Your welcome!

[Exorcist_Rampage]

Awesome heels.

It could lower sex drive. Being healthy should be main goal and not simply losing weight. Eating healthy and the weight naturally falls.

[ChiTown33]

Maybe if you're self conscious about it. I don't think affects your libido though. Maybe if you're dealing with a medical issue like ED. I don't know.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I don't know if it limits how often you want it, but it limits what sex acts/ positions you can do comfortably for both parties

[TheBadAss]

So agree with your opinion

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@TheBadAss Thanks. If the guy too heavy, well legs only stretch so far unless you elastic girl lol and if a woman too heavy, well the her being on top ain't going to be as much fun lol

[Flower7]

I wouldn't know...

[4eyes2mouths]

Not necessarily overweight unless it gets in the way or your self esteem but being unhealthy can definitely have an impact on your sex drive.

[WhiteShoulder]

Not sure

[Avicenna]

I would imagine it does reduce energy and testosterone levels and therefore libido.

[reptocarl]

It hasn’t me

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes , most certain weight has a major issue on ones sex life

[Nikki1989]

It wouldn't help with your energy levels.

[outside_Toronto]

I would think it can

[loveslongnails]

It means I can't have you wrap your legs around me and have me pick you up and throw you across the room. Or life you up on the wall and fuck you before I eat you. Sorry, but I'm just not Superman.

[NorthwestRider]

Very possible

[Gedaria]

Possible...

[Shamalien]

Ofc no fatties

[SecretGardenBlood65]

I never had sex lol

[ask4any]

Yes it can

[khurrambarkat]

Weight doesn't matter in love relationships and can't effect your sexual life.

[ashleykoll]

Yes it's hard to move and the effort takes away the drive