Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Can boys control when their penis gets hard?
NatalieIsHere Xper 6
I've been wondering this. When I am with my boyfriend sometimes I notice when he has an erection, but it's very random. We could be kissing or cuddling and he won't have it most of the time, but sometimes when nothing is happening I can notice it depending on what he's wearing. Is it totally involuntary?
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What Girls & Guys Said
3 35personally i don't think they can it just happens for them
How do you know?
We can control pennis getting hard, but i depends on you... hahaha
No, but that's where girls can help.
Not possible.
it's has a mind of it's own.
no not realy
they can't control it. if the kiss is realy hot it can happen
nope has a mind of its own
yes and no, it has a mind of its own, but we can make it erect by flexing the keegal muscle
no, a lot of times i get hard when im not masturbating or thinking about sex
No way, unless starting thinking about really disgusting things like bills or overdrafts.
no, there is no control.. we cannot turn them on or off. It is an automatic body function.
No it cannot be directly controlled.
we dont' control it. lol. it can happen at any time. sometimes it happens when we got sexy stuff on the brain. other times it could just happen while walking out to the car after watching a movie about climate change or something. :D
somethimes it is random but we can also kinda control it
At that age there is no control, it just happens