Can every girl orgasm? Like is it possible for every girl?

my girl friend has never achieved an orgasm, and I've tried everything from stimulating her clit, her pussy, rough sex, love making, all that and she can't cum. She can squirt only when she has had some alcohol. How can i get her to have an orgasm?
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  • I mean there are rare cases where the girl just can't orgasm, one way you can find out is if when she touches herself she has an orgasm, it is easier for a girl to orgasm when she's touching herself than from a guy since we just know our bodies better, unless she's never done it before

    • she has never masturbated like ever. And she's stressed a lot, but i can get her to squirt when she has a few drinks.

    • Maybe you can try relaxing her and she can losen up a bit more with the foreplay, do you have foreplay at all?

  • Squirting is orgasming although that's only of the several ways girls can orgasm.

    • She's probably just not relaxed enough since she can do it when she's drunk

Most Helpful Guys

  • Well my girl has never orgasmed from sex, with 5 guys in her past, but if i go down, it's done in 2 minutes. She has said only one of her 10 girlfriends can orgasm from sex and that girl is nympho. so take it for what it's worth

    • "... nympho... orgasm..." According to some theories, these two words don't belong together. According to 'some theories'!

    • just anecdotal evidence: the one girl who gets orgasms from sex that my girl knows is the one that is sleeping with new people every couple of days

  • in my opinion, yes, every girl has the physical possibility to have a big O.
    I don't say every girl can orgasm: mental blocks stemming from education or trauma may be stopping her completely.

    • how to bypass it?

    • It's not that simple: she probably doesn't know it herself. -Start with knowing if she REALLY wants one, if she doesn't feel guilty ('bad' , a 'whore') for having one. Then there's the WHY? -If it's education which caused it, it will be very hard (a revolt against the father figure ) -If it's religion, it stems from brainwashing older than SE. The older the brainwashing, the deeper. -If it's a trauma, there may be even more 'work'. The memory of a trauma is often suppressed, not accepted. e. g. a girl abused but who experienced a moment of purely physical pleasure during the abuse will suppress all pleasure, in order not to feel guilty about that 'pleasure' and to avoid reviving the abuse. That's just one example. There are many other possibilities. She's probably unaware of the cause of that reaction. It may take many consultations to build up a relation of confidence with a shrink before he can start poking in her deep mind. Very profound psyche thus.

    • And once he knows the origin, a shrink can try to start 'rebuilding ' her. It can take longer. Psychology is an art, not a science.

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  • technically it is...:-)

    • how can i get her to then? its usually very easy for me with past girls.

  • I dont orgasm during sex

  • no it is not possible for every chik

  • cumming isn't an orgasm for a girl...

    • whenever you cum you orgasm, that's for everyone and everyone can orgasm without cumming.

    • yeah thats what I meant. like cumming isn't the only way to orgasm

    • @AshleyMD