Can guys control how fast they finish?

It seems like when i want him to finish fast he takes forever and when i want him to go a long time he goes fast.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • The more sex you have, the more you can control it. Plus the longer the session, the harder it gets. It pretty gets to the point when even the slighest touch can trigger the orgasm. Last, stamina decreases if you go long without sex. "Long" is different from guy to guy. For some, can be a week and for some just a few hours. Most guys, have almost total control if they immediately go for round 2.

  • Yes we can. Usually, women have a part in this as well. For example: if you tell your man "don't cum yet", he most likely WILL. i know, i know. It's a fucked up trigger in our brains. Anyway yes men CAN control that by themselves but it takes time to master this skill. Some will never be able to just because they don't care if they last too little in bed.

    • Ha I remember one time early on with my girl, and she was having an orgasm and started moaning "Keep going, keep going!" That was the end for me.

Most Helpful Girl

  • My guy can, within limits, but if I put my mind to it I can . . um. . . override his desires in that department.

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  • To a certain extent, yes

  • You need to speak out the same with your boyfriend. It's a mutual understanding and of course it includes his daily course of action.

  • It's all about the situation. That said, as men age typically they do slow down. It's not like in High school when you could just slip into a closet with your girlfriend and have everything finish up in a few minutes.

  • Influence more than control.

  • most times, yeah. but yeah if you tell him to finish fast, you put emotional pressure on him, which makes him unable to let loose and cum. you need to be relaxed and comfortable to enjoy. knowing that you have to hurry makes it worse.

  • kind of but it really depends on the individual and when they last came or how horny they are.

  • Yes then can for 10/20 mins, but then they can't

  • Some guys yes, some not.

  • yes is called edging

    • Question. message me

    • oh I don't know what that is

  • Yes they can. If a man wants to finish faster he would either close his eyes or put a paper bag over his partner.

  • I can pretty much cum when I want to. But it is harder to cum quickly than last forever.

  • I can. It depends on the guy

  • Yes there's a book there is a book called eso extended sexual orgasms my brother read it

  • Nah, if we're going at a steady pace, it comin, and it goin.

  • Yeah some can

  • Not really.

  • control is very difficult to impossible,

  • Yes but it requires training.

  • I can, although sometimes it works too well and I will be ready to finish and then my penis goes "nope, just a false alarm."

  • ya certainly..