Can I have help with my cuckold relationship please?

I'll briefly explain the situation I'm in. It may sound like I've made this question as some sort of fantasy or to troll but I promise this is real so please treat this like it is.

I'm 23 years old and my fiancé is 21 years old. We met around 3 years ago through mutual friends and we really hit it off together. We had a great sex life for 2 years but we both noticed that the buzz was gone and my fiancé is really open and is a huge person on communication so was telling me that she wanted to try to spice up our sex life.

My fiancé heard about cuckolding from one of her friends who is in some sort of cuckold relationship with her husband, I'm not too sure on the facts.

Anyway, we started to experiment more. My
girlfriend has always had a thing for black men so we started off with just buying her like a black dildo and I would use it on her whenever we wanted to have fun so she could get herself off. I liked it because she paid attention to me still and would always get me off afterwards through oral and sometimes penetration. We also signed up to Fetlife and used to just explore content together.

However, just a few months ago we took the leap and decided to meet someone in person to explore the whole cuckolding thing further, I didn't know who it was, my fiancé arranged everything as this was all her idea and I wasn't keen on it. She ended up bringing a random black man that her friend recommended to her to have sex with us. I say us but it ended up with just them having sex and I felt like I was going to be sick. I hated every second of it and I don't know what to do.

My girlfriend has been doing this for 3 months now and she never pays any attention to me. I've noticed she has become distant and hardly spends time with me. She goes on dates with him and everything. I feel like I am losing her because we haven't sex for over a year and it's really killing me.
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  • Oh man, this is bad.
    the first problem is communication. You guys aren’t talking to each other.
    it all started when she arranged the black dude without you in the loop.
    now you won’t talk to her. You need to talk and tell her of the things that bother you that you mentioned here.
    then she can either fix the problem and be with you, or you need to move on and separate. You’ll be miserable if you don’t fix this asap

Most Helpful Guy

  • Dude, you should have said something. I don't know whether it's too late or not, but you should definitely talk to her, like right now. Say how you feel, say what do you think about this. Tell her you want this to stop. That you're uncomfortable.

    • I know I should have said something, I don’t know what to do now. I feel like I’ve left it too late to say anything

    • You never know. Try. For your own sake.

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  • She is just cheating with your permission in my opinion. If you put up with this any longer you should go see a shrink. Put a stop to this bull shit or your relationship will go it's merry way, if it hasn't already. They way it is now is she is using you for security and him for sex. You, in the meantime, are being played as a fool.

    Can I have help with my cuckold relationship please?
    • She is my fiancé though and I love her. I think I made a mistake by not talking to her about how I felt to begin with and let it drag on. So now I feel like it would be unfair for me to say anything as it’s been months

    • In that case deal with it, because I don't see how you can say you can't rescind a former statement, especially if it is not going as you originally agreed to. I can see now that it may already be too late. She will probably dump you for him anyway when she sees what a wimp your are.

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  • Dude wake up and smell the coffee, she's basically cheating on you with your permission. Get some balls and end it now, move on with your life without her.

  • Why are you still in it? End this and date someone else.

  • 🤮🤮🤮🤮

    • I asked for useful comments

  • You were an idiot to allow her to cheat on you in front of your face. You dump her immediately, take your L and learn the big lesson you were just taught.

  • You ruined your relationship by doing this. It never works. Dump her and learn your lesson for next time.

  • Break up. Cuckolding isn't for everyone and clearly you don't like it and she isn't experianced enough to include you in any way.
    You tried it... For a long time as well and it doesn't work for you. Don't keep punishing yourself.

  • Sorry Guy, she has moved on to black guys it sounds like.
    Dump her and move on because she has.

    • She is my fiancé what kind of comment is this

    • Reality.

  • Dude. Why are you even with her?

    She clearly just doesn’t enjoy sex with you

  • I'm sorry to say that... but being cuckold (even if it's her idea) made you lost her... I'm sorry for saying that you lost her already!!

  • I would suggest you take some counteraction and tells her that unless she starts having sex with you, you will go see a sex worker. Give her a couple of days to answer, and then either go out and do it, or go out and let her think you have done it.

  • I would love to have a girlfriend cuckold me!! Where is she to be found?

  • This is not cuckolding, this is openly cheating. I would recommend that you break up with her and find someone else. Also it sounds like you are not into cuckolding; so I would recommend that you don't persue it in the future.

  • Most White women have a thing for Black guys (Opposites attracting and all).
    You're a fucking idiot for even thinking about marrying her.
    Go get a cute, sexy brown woman like you really want and quite letting that bitch manipulate and use you.

    • She is my fiancé. I want a solution that doesn’t involve me leaving her. I love her.

    • You have to be trolling. How fucking pathetic and lonely do you have to be to stay with some evil White bitch who fucks Black guys in front of you. You did know that Asians and Latinas are hotter right? If you get one of them as your girlfriend you'll want to fuck her all the time. You'll forget your skanky fiancee ever existed.

    • I think you are right. He is either a troll or a complete idiot.

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