Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I am a 20 year old female virgin. I honestly don't have any sexual hang ups, just never got around to it, and I'm looking to lose that part of my identity. I'm in college, so hookup culture is definitely prevalent. I'm not opposed to just hooking up, but I'm wondering if I need to disclose that I'm a ~virgin~ to hookups.
I feel like it'd be so easy to simply lie. I'm currently thinking about saying my number is 2 if prompted, and just not saying anything if it doesn't come up.
I'm also, ehrm, stretched out down there, so there wouldn't be any bleeding or pain that would make it obvious I'm a virgin.
I'm also a part of a sorority on campus, and I would be MORTIFIED if a frat bro in our social circle told everyone he "took my virginity" (I feel like that's more embarrassing than just plain old "we fucked").
I'd love some opinions on the subject!
Can I lie about being a virgin?
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What Girls & Guys Said
12 28Yeah no one else needs to know
No you will die and go to hell
I would prefer any girl I am with doesn't lie
Why would you?
Sure, but WHY LIE?
Yes definitely let the lucky guy know you are still a virgin... Its a big deal for me to find out the girl is a virgin and I will be her first.. it's a huge turn on !!!
You can’t lie now cause 39 people and many more knows now, jokes jokes. What you gotta lie about? I’m a virgin and if someone asked me I’ll tell them, who cares
We are the same. Let's fuck and break our destiny.
Please don't be pressured into doing something you're not 100% sure about
Don’t lie about it. And besides, virgins are getting rarer
If you're just making out then it doesn't matter but if you're going to have sex it's definitely advisable that you tell them.
There's no reason you need to tell anyone your a virgin.
The moment you do it, men will tell you they don't want you because you're not a virgin. You can't win.
Honestly, get into a relationship and have nothing but vanilla sex, so you don't have a blank check for what men are allowed to do you ad infinitum. If you choose to lose it. I don't see the value in having casual sex as a woman.
Other than on planet GAG, no guy is going to ask, because they don't care.
If you think something is that embarrassing, then you should rethink it or just not do it. If you're willing to get with the type of guy who brags about doing girls, then some people will just see you as easy who doesn't get into relationships, virgin or not
If you like relationships and plan to get with a boyfriend sometime later then he will probably feel more comfortable you lost it in a previous relationship instead of a dirty hookup. He will assumed you only settled for him if you got intimate with a random guy faster than you did with him and made him wait
You don't sound like you have any respect for yourself. You want to lose your virginity to some random loser. Good luck with that.