Most Helpful Guys

  • You can lose it however you want. You'll find it ends up meaning very little, in the end. The sort of men that are insecure about not having a virgin wife are usually insecure about a lot of ther things you'd probably rather avoid, anyway. And that's pretty much all virginity is useful for - placating the sort of men who are insecure about having a non virgin wife.

  • You can if you want to... but is that how you want to do it with a stranger your first time? Maybe wait for the right guy at the right time and never forget to use condoms every time! We are the same age so DM me if u want to chat about it

    • Thanks for the MHO ... take it slow

    • Thanks for the advice 😊

    • Thanks for following me by the way... dm if u ever want to chat

Most Helpful Girls

  • Of course you can. It's your body and your choice. You should feel free to choose what you do with it.
    But make sure that you are safe, that the other person also wants to, and use protection. Make the right decisions, and don't be impulsive.

  • If you need to ask, then you're definitely not ready.

    • Gosh... Thank you so much @adunni015 for the MHO.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • A one night stand, the two night stand,
    Hell you could lose it bent over time your shoe at a chunky cheese LOL

    But whatever you do just make sure it's to the right person

    Because the last thing you want is to lose it to a guy that is selfish only thinking about himself and he's done in 2 minutes I'm picking up his clothes and heading out the front door and you're still laying there going WTF just happened I didn't even know you started lol

    If the guys not going to make it all about you
    And only think of himself you're going to hate it you're going to be upset because you waited this long to lose your virginity and some guy walks in and he's done in 2 minutes and he's walking out the door

    Also remember you are the only one in charge of your body if a guy tries to talk you into no condom I mean it's up to you but you have to be the leader you have to protect yourself and him if he's not that smart and doesn't want to protect you both too

  • The simple and short answer is "YES", duh? YES, you totally could lose it on a one stand. I did, and I loved it!!!

  • I did, there's nothing wrong with it.

    • if u did it then there's nothing with it? even ur underage!! wtf r u turning this world of bullshit

    • @peterrezeeek I have a news for you, underage people can have sex

  • Sure have at it!

  • you can but make sure its what you want so you dont regret it

  • Of course you can. It's not illegal. But why would you want to do that?

  • No...

  • I agree with Alex.. Snow said. I think you should at least make sure it is someone you know and who will make your first time memorable and safe

  • Of course you can, it would just be stupid

  • If you want to go for it!

    If you want to wait that's fine too.

    Don't feel you have to mould your life to other people's expectations. And don't feel you have to label yourself with words describing your actions.

    So don't worry be happy

  • If that's what you want to do then sure

  • yes and it'll be very easy

    so easy in fact, people can question whether or not you were thinking properly to begin with

  • You can lose your virginity to whoever you want & just remember if you sleep with dogs you can end up with fleas. Condoms prevent minivans, remember that.

  • Yes you can, sex is sex.

    The question is if you want to.

    You can also get pregnant or catch STDs. I mention this as a lot of people doesn't seem to realize you can get those from your first time having sex and don't use proper protection.

  • Virginity is completely and utterly irrelevant to everyone other than religious extremists who might define it as a requirement for marriage.

    The moment you have sex you aren't a virgin anymore but nothing what so ever will have changed.

    You should not allow this meaningless label affect your thinking or actions IN ANY WAY AT ALL.

  • ?

    If you want to.

    Be safe and make sure they’re clean.

  • What? Isn't today like asking "can I do something and later not have done it?

    Anyway, why do you ask? The days of viewing years are long over. Do what you want.

  • the wording allows two directions, can it be lost on a o. n. s. yes even once breaks it.

    should you "do o. n. s. to lose" definitely not because the goal is not to lose virginity nor do something intimate with someone who will leave you after once. instead wait for a guy you want to be intimate with who will continue long term. and beware of guys who say , i will love you forever, but break up after once.

  • Why would want to give it to an ONS?

    • I feel I should give it to someone I don't know

    • Who will you feel about that when you are 60? Will you look back at it as a good decision?

  • sure, it can be a quickie in the back seat of your car, or any place.
    Remember you can only lose it once, and you might always remember who was your first, so maybe make it special, and of course use birth control, or it could be Happy Mother's Day cards for the rest of your life.

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