Can I make my vagina wetter? or is something just wrong with me?

[Anonymous]

My friend LOVES sex. She’ll tell me about her ‘adventures’ and they usually include details about her being really wet. Things like... the guys have to change their sheets... or she was leaking down their leg. I’ve had several partners and I’ve never been that wet! My vagina is moist (lol horrible word) and never dry, but it’s not watery and it’s never enough to splatter or drip. Is there something I can do to be more wet? Or am I just gonna be one of those women who need lube all the time. I’ve never used lube, I just feel like that’s the next step since I’m not as wet as I apparently should be

[Dargil]

You may not be hydrated enough. Drink more fluids.
But here's the deal. Personal lube or lotion can prime the pump, so to speak.
Your problem with being inadequately wet can be abrasion not allowing you to become aroused enough to get wet. A little lube can get you started and then nature can take over.

[R4vedave]

Everyone is different. You don't have to drip to not need lube, that a ridiculous idea. When you finger yourself or use toys, or anything: do you feel you NEED to use lube?

If the answer is no, then you're worrying about shit for absolutely no reason.

[JustCary21]

Just relax and make your boyfriend arouse you more, let him go down on you, have enough foreplay. If it does not help buy lube

[Curmudgeon]

If you are enjoying sex, leave it at that. If you need lube, and you will know, then use it, nothing wrong with that.

[abc3643]

You are likely better!

A girl who is too slippery isn't such a good lay because we do need skin-to-skin contact in the vajayjay to get off.

[MoeFromMe]

I know three ways that work wonders.

1. Putting a finger on your nipples and pressing them inward on your breasts while wiggling them around.

2. There's a little hard part of the vagina at the very top in the center. If you rub it left and right, it'll give you a very good sensation which in most cases will get you very wet.

3. While having sex, have your partner bite your neck.

All three of these combined will give you a next level experience.

[Prakbio]

your partner should invest more time in foreplay...

[Pejtu]

My girlfriend is so wet most of the time i have stains from her fluids LOL my words! On sheets
But it dries out after like hour 😂

[Gedaria]

Something is arousing you. Possibly the moment. It's not a bad thing...

[Sambo22685]

If your having foreplay ask your partner to lick and use fingers at the same time.

[DanOh2018]

Maybe more foreplay. Or lube.

[Marriedwith2]

If the men you are with fail to get you wet enough, then they are doing something wrong... not you.

[FrenchyRomain]

not every pussy is the same, hell there are no 2 identical pussies on this planet. She can get VERY wet you can't, it's fine.
Either you don't know what it's like to be turned on to 11 or you can't get any wetter than you are. Lube is totally fine ;)

[Reddwolf]

Sounds like you need to masturbate more try practicing with a vibrator

[rockrewls]

Diet and Lifestyle Make a Difference
Studies also show that adding foods rich in soy, flax seed and Vitamin E may help restore estrogen to your system, which in turn will increase vaginal moisture. Scented soaps and hygiene products or even excessive stress can also increase the severity of vaginal dryness.

[chuy27c]

Whoever your with just idnt doing it

[Anonymous]

A few things:

-- How do you know your friend isn't making things up or embellishing details? Watch the movie American Beauty to see what I mean.

-- Even if your friend is 100% telling the truth, being excessively wet is not necessarily a good thing. Based on what you're writing, it sounds like you're just right.

-- When you meet the right guy, he will make you insanely, ridiculously wet.