Can I play with my friend's dick?

He's a nice guy, and I really wanna stay friends with him but I think it'd be fun to mess around. He's a virgin tho, do you think he'd be down? Or would it wreck our friendship? If a friend brought it up with you, what would you think? Would you only see her as a slut/sex object after that?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I've done stuff with a boy that was a friend of mine. Started out as just messing around but after a awhile we started dating. We're still friends but not nearly as close as we were... i think i might marry him some day if the pieces fall into place but right now we're both doing our own thing "seeing other people."

    Unless he's gay I'm about 99% sure he'd be down. Guys always seem to be down to have their cocks played with.

  • You can say goodbye to your friendship after the initial fondle and things will only become awkward or strained over time. Plus you could end up holding him back from having meaningful relationship with someone else. You could also get a bad reputation and any boyfriends in the future who learn of this may start doubting your feelings towards male friends. It would be awkward if the friend rejected your sexual advance!

    • I think this deserves MHO.

    • Agreed, thanks. This is what I was expecting. Thank you

  • Probably if he lets you. But dont send mixed signals.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Why not become friends WITH BENEFITS then? Or better yet, enter a relationship with him.

    But yeah, I am not advising against it and I personally think you should go for it, but you probably won't be able to be just friends after that.

    And I personally don't see anyone as a slut whether they have zero or infinity sexual partners. That's just my personal motto.

  • Definitely talk to him about it, maybe lay some ground rules and hopefully no one gets caught up with all the feelings.

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  • If you don't want to have sex with him then no. If you are prepared for it to end up in sex then yes it is ok.

  • It would not be possible to "play around" with his dick and still remain platonic/causal friends. Doesn't mean that he won't agree to it, but if he does he will certainly want you to do it again, and again.

  • I mean I would probably be a bit stunned at first and probably ask if she actually just said that, then would probably want to make out for a bit and she would decide where it would go, so yeah I'd accept but I'm sexually frustrated and 20 so.. But you should always be careful with friends, odds are high one of you will develop feelings.

  • Why not just give him a blow job and ask him about it afterwards.
    Have it your way ! #BurgerKing

  • Can we be friends?

  • I think he would be down Bc he a guy. Just be friends with benefits

  • I'd advise against it.

  • No, unless you want to have sex don't.

  • Soo do you want him to fall for you?

  • If he hangds out with you often chances are he likes you so play with his dick , who cares. men and women where not meant to be friends anyway

  • Uhh, that's a PURELY sexual thing!

  • I'd be up for it but that's just me

  • possibly...

  • no.. you are friends, how would you think so lol

  • Well I see all girls as sluts anyway sooooooo

  • Id say lets go for it

  • Nothing wrong with that

  • Hard to say different guys think different things, personally I'd be happy to go with it, then after some time if my feelings catch on probably try make it a relationship, it depends on what he's okay with.

  • Go for it life short your gonna have a boring life if you dont take risks

  • nope.. have fun.. i wish i had friends like that

    • Don't we all?

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