Can men be sexually frigid?

Jean-Marie_Céline Master

I have been accused of being "frigid", but I think that's not true.
Especially because sexual frigidity doesn't actually exists.
Thoughts?

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Frigidity doesn't actually exists.

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FrankEinstein Xper 3
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I don't know about frigidity but certainly not interested in sex.

I am a proud representatives of that rare species that finds no gratification in sexual activities.

So, I am as passive to naked bodies, both of males and females and I am not aroused by display of sexuality or any visuals of nudity. That leaves me totally indifferent, yes cold.

As cold as a fridge that, by the way gets its name from frigid air 😀
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- Berethor
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  Well it sure a useful trait for those who want to join to a monastery. :)
- Jean-Marie_Céline
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  Or for those who aren't sex obsessed apes.
- FrankEinstein
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  @Berethor both of you are correct. That is also less of a stress in life because sex is not the most important thing in life
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- Berethor
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  @FrankEinstein actually both of us correct, there is both upsides and downsides in that, but it's usually seen more of a negative than a positive trait, especially for those who are not single.
- FrankEinstein
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  Frigidity is actually an old term that was used at the time when science could not find a reason for a woman not attracted to sexuality and acted distant towards it (from the Latin "frigidus" - meaning cold). Nowadays, the term is replaced by asexual or inhibited sexual desire.
- FrankEinstein
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  Let me express my appreciation for having been selected for the MHO by a person as popular as you are.
- Jean-Marie_Céline
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  You wrote one of the most thoughtful and in depth answers, so it deserved MHO 👍. I talked about this with the girl I'm seeing and we will take little steps.
Berethor Master
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Yea, there is some asexual men, it's much more rare among men, but it's something that exist.

tvtropes.org/.../AManIsAlwaysEager

tvtropes.org/.../IgnoreTheFanservice
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- Jean-Marie_Céline
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  Ok, but I'm not talking about asexuality
- Berethor
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  It's basically the same thing, but there is different asexuality/frigidity levels.
- Jean-Marie_Céline
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  Okay, but what if frigidity doesn't exist?
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- Berethor
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  It exist, if a man is sexually frustrating his girlfriend, she can say that he is a frigid.
- Jean-Marie_Céline
  +1 y
  But it's actually a slur
- Berethor
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  Yea, just like calling a promiscuous woman slut is a slur, but it not makes her less promiscuous.
- FrankEinstein
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  Let me contradict you. I am totally asexual and there is quite a large community of guys that share the same feeling that sex is nothing really worth wasting time for and that you can live a perfectly happy life without the constraints that sex brings. You don't have the fear to have to perform and to be cheated because you are not up to what is expected of you. It is a wonderful feeling to be free of those fears and obligations.
- SueShe
  +1 y
  @FrankEinstein so very true!
- Berethor
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  So you both claiming that they is not a lot of guys than girls in the asexual community?
- Berethor
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  I meant are you clamming that there is no lot more girls then guys in the asexual community?
- FrankEinstein
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  I don't have statistics and I don't even know if any government publishes such unimportant statistics on how people have sex. Fact is that there are quite a number of guys/gals that are not attracted by sex and it is very good like that. This is my personal estimation but I would say that at least 3-5% of the active population is asexual or totally sexually abstinent.

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PrincessGrail Master
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Frigid is a slur word. You are definitely not frigid.
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- Jean-Marie_Céline
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  Thank you!
- ZeussLightningBolt
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  What's it mean?
- PrincessGrail
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  @ZeussLightningBolt can't enjoy sex. Members of the opposite sex can't make you cum.
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- ZeussLightningBolt
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  Oh I see. That's only for SEX?
- PrincessGrail
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  @ZeussLightningBolt yes. Actually, I'm not sure if "frigid" people can cum from masturbating or not. It's an old-fashioned slang word. It also literally means "really cold"
- ZeussLightningBolt
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  I was wondering that too. Thanks Princess, even though I'm even more confused now :p
- ZeussLightningBolt
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  I have more questions than answers now
- PrincessGrail
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  @ZeussLightningBolt except for one female friend who is asexual because her father raped her when she was nine, I have never met anyone who was really "frigid."
- ZeussLightningBolt
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  JESUS FUCKING CHRIST! I had a friend who was afraid of sex because he was raped by his father, then by Mormons during his mission. But he eventually ended up fucking and birthing children
Anonymous
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You just had bad sex
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- Jean-Marie_Céline
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  I guess so

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Bluemax Master
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Certainly, but it seems less likely than for a woman to be fridged.
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ZeussLightningBolt Editor
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I don't even know what that means
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- Jean-Marie_Céline
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  More or less it means being unwilling or incapable of getting sexually aroused and interested.
- ZeussLightningBolt
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  So its basically a street term for "erectile dysfunction" HOLY SHIT! I didn't know you were only 22
- Jean-Marie_Céline
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  Not necessarily erectile dysfunction, it can also be a low sex drive.
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- Jean-Marie_Céline
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  Actually I'm still 21 since I put the wrong month lol.
- ZeussLightningBolt
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  Are you a virgin?
- Jean-Marie_Céline
  +1 y
  No, but since I just broke up and I had a bad experience with it, I said on here that my next relationship will probably be sexless for a while, so someone called me "frigid".
Metatarsals Xper 5
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Context? Was it with someone new?
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- Jean-Marie_Céline
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  No, in general
MoscowMitch Xper 6
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They can be asexual.
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- MoscowMitch
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  Frigidity exists. We just don't use that term to describe it.
andyaa Xper 6
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Yes, if they have incorrect Girls?
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