Can men hold it in to last longer?

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When you do it, does finishing feels better?
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  • no we can’t just “hold it in” to last longer.
    many guys ejaculate within 5-7 minutes of penetration and it’s something not within our control, though it is possible to train one’s stamina through a variety of exercises and practice. sexually experienced guys can last longer than virgins (on their first few times) because they’re not used to how much more pleasurable sex is from their usual masturbation routine. doing kegals can strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, allowing for more intense orgasms and stronger orgasm control. repeated edging can help guys better learn how to last longer in bed and i highly recommend practicing with a fleshlight.
    the fleshlight is extremely ribbed and bumpy on the inside, and in my opinion, it’s much more stimulating that an actual vagina (sex is better of course), so it’s harder to “last” when stroking with the fleshlight.
    what i have found is being able to last 5 minutes (consecutive stroking) should allow the guy to last 10 minutes in bed.
    the first few times i masturbated with the fleshlight (back when i was 17), i ejaculated within a few minutes and over time, i was easily edging 45mins to an hour plus.
    now i have no issues lasting long enough in bed for my partner and i to orgasm simultaneously.

  • I try to hold it to last longer. Sometimes it sneaks up and there is no turning back.
    Other times, I can catch it and slow down, stop, then get back into the action.
    Yes, it does seem to be a better blow when I do blow.
    The best is to hold it back just enough that it tips over the top and wham!!

    • Thanks for the MHO :)

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  • You mean during sex?

    We can, yeah, but only to a point. Eventually, though, we are pushed past the threshold, and then nothing can stop it.

    Guys can certainly train themselves to last longer, though.

  • It can be difficult especially if it has been a while since he last had sex or jerked off.

  • It is a case of mind over matter and It takes a lot of practice but yes.

    As for when finishing does it feel better?
    If you could imagine begging a guy to let you release and him denying it until you cannot stand it any longer? Only then allowing it, I would imagine it's a similar feeling.

  • I can delay climax indefinitely. No problem waiting for her to finish first.

  • I dont because it takes long enough already. There's no point in holding it in

  • Without stopping the stimulation? Nope. at least I can't.
    Have to pause for a while to get the feeling down.

  • yes. I used to do it all the time.

  • Yeah, it's called Tantric sex.

  • Yes! Guys can do kegels to last longer, and it is well worth the effort.

  • Yes, if I hold back at the right point. There is a point where I can't hold back, though.

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