One fact about both men and women, just to different degrees, is that the more sex you have with different people, the more you separate your emotions from it. This is especially true for women, and often the reason why men subconsciously seek women that aren't promiscuous. But its worth mentioning that is true for men as well, I think the only difference is that men have to grow from this need to have sex with multiple different women from the beginning, because we are wired to spread our seed.
I voted yes. Anything guys do, some girls do 2. Like on the news they showd two 8th grade girls hold down a 6th grade boy. He tried 2 get away. One of the girls took off his swim short. I think the othr rubbed his penis. A third one recorded it.
Girls cheat on guys. I've had girls touch me sexually in high school who I didn't know. I could go on.
If he’s not that hot or doesn’t give you butterflies. It’s easy to f-k and leave.
If he gives me butterflies and I get all warms and blush and red. That’s difficult for me to easily f-k and leave. Cause that means I caught feelings. Otherwise the lover I’m screwing is more like a dildo that we can put away
Yes the proper question really is: Can you have sex, and not fall, and not regret it either?
Yes, it’s like screwing myself with a dildo. Do we catch feelings for a dildo? No we don’t. We also don’t fall in love with our dildo. I've been single for 5 years now. I hadn’t once caught feelings for the boytoy I’m with. We respect eachother. We hang out after sex, and that’s it. We’re too busy for a relationship right now. 😔 I would want a relationship, but Im still trying to lose weight and go into military before doing that. I just feel so not ready for that. Physically.
@hotguy93 I specially have certain rules that help me to not fall in love. I don’t kiss, I don’t let him play with my boobs. And also, I don’t let him touch my clit. And that way we’re all good. 👍 Try putting an assplug in. And let me know if you fall in love with your dildo.
When I was on birth control, the answer was yes. When I got engaged, I stopped and I noticed sex had much greater emotional impact with my fiance and later husband.
Now, I get this warm feeling of love and connection that I never felt when I was on BC.
I never understood how anyone can want to have (let alone enjoy) sex without that feeling. I need that feeling to happen before even kissing is allowed. Without that feeling, It would just feel like I'm being violated/raped.
@TheSpaceGnome orgasms feel pretty good. So does your clit being manipulated by someone else. Add in the full feeling and it's a really really good thing just on it's own. Add the rest and it's better.
I know they do, but I don't need help to have an orgasm, my hands achieve that easily on their own. Plus without the emotional/mental connection, I'd not feel aroused, just threatened, so it would actually kill my chances for an orgasm if there's no connection.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!For me... I really couldn't bring myself to no strings attached sex !!!
I need the relationship to make it enjoyable !!!
I know for a fact it can be truly casual , certain of it.
I can't... I would fall for a guy even if I didn't want to after sex.. I don't know why.. but I am sure it is possible or girls wouldn't be whores lol
I don't think prostitutes are having much fun. Unless you mean in the colloquial sense. In which case I still wonder whether they get secretly attached and regretful. And indeed whether actual prostitutes sometimes do too.
LOL I meant in the colloquial sense... I wonder that myself.. but it also feels like women don't really get the problem with being a hoe until later in life because a lot of them are really dumb, that is if I go by the people I know..
I can't possible comment haha
It can for me, although I do sometimes feel slightly ashamed.
Yes. Ask every hooker, its their job.
Ah yes, but read the question - can it be fun, *and* hot, *and* her not fall. I'm making assumptions but I don't think prostitutes find their experience fun or hot.
I think women become more attached to men after having sex with him, especially if sex for her was perfect. While men can pay not much attention to such experience, i think women have higher chance of falling for a guy then a guy for women. Women are more emotional.
It's biology, that's the thing I've been avoiding saying. Her body doesn't know about birth control (especially condoms or copper IUD). So far as it's concerned, she's now pregnant, and needs to attach for a handful of years to look after early stage infant.
Yes, sex can be casual for girls. After my divorce, I dated a woman who was not interested in a relationship, just sex. It was interesting while it lasted, but we both soon lost interest, and the dating only lasted a few months.
Yes. It becomes just another visitor.
Yes easy I often do casual
Yes. I'm not ready for a relationship yet. I'm happy with and endless string of one night stands off tinder. That's all I'm looking for right now.
Are you not secretly hoping for more from each one you don't regret though?
Nope
Not for any of the good women (thankfully)
This is not a serious question, right?
I would fall for her lol its not good sx if you dont fall.
I don't think so. Women have too many responsibilities waiting for them if they are too casual. Men share those responsibilities, but women are the ones who carry the children. Men sometimes aren't man enough to carry their responsibilities. I don't blame women for not being too casual.
I mean there are some girls like that ig. Problem is when men manipulate and don't say it upfront that they just want that. Snake shitty behavior at its best.
Maybe because the whole thing is an unsolvable problem, and girls need that promise/lie, because for them there are always feelings.
Hence (traditionally) the engagement ring, expensive for the sake of it (one third of annual income), to prove you mean something to him.
If he is attractive to me and fcks me good then yes, but most guys aren't that so often I have to have feelings before I even consider sleeping with them
I get get off if there’s no emotional connection. Guys never want emotions so I never get off, so I quit sex years ago because guys are too fast and not involved.
Indeed, this was implied by the question. Has to be fun, hot, and no attachment. Not sure it's possible, at least for women.
I'm not going to give a 100% answer. Because women are greatly influenced by thier feelings. A woman can have a casual encounter but she cannot turn off her feelings.
for some ig
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