Can sex get really demeaning?

I have it in my head that sex work can’t be that bad because sex can’t be that awful. I’m a virgin I don’t know how sex can get. Can it really be that like tough on you mentally? Really rough stuff? I don’t know, I think sex just seems simple but I’m getting backlash that it’s not
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  • It can get demeaning, yes. But it depends on your point of view.

    First, I want to say that sex can be the most amazing, joyful, transcendent, ecstatic thing we can ever experience if done right. That has to include kissing, foreplay (stimulating erogenous areas of the body), and oral, as well as penetration.

    I don't think being sexually active before marriage is at all demeaning, even though there are those who call sexually active girls sluts. But I think those people have serious issues about sex and especially women. I think normal people have sex and those who value virginity and "purity" are outliers.

    There are things that can be degrading. Some people are into weird fetishes like pee or even poop, for example. Some people are into BDSM. Some people like slapping, spitting and rough stuff. You name it.

    The thing is, though, it's not demeaning or degrading if you are into it.

    Most women enjoy being submissive when it comes to sex, even if they are not submissive in other aspects of life. But they get a thrill from being in the hands of a man who is larger and stronger than them. That's totally normal. It's kind of the nature of sex due to sexual dimorphism and the fact that women are built to be penetrated.

    When it comes to prostitution, there are different kinds.

    There are high end escorts who make amazing income.

    I've heard of girls working their way through college by only taking on a few regular clients. They can set their own hours, be selective about their clients, and even enjoy their work while making decent money.

    I don't have much problem with either of those scenarios. They are relatively safe. They are all cash and tax free. It seems better than a lot of regular jobs. I figure those girls are fortunate to have been born with the looks, brains and dispositions to be successful.

    There are girls who work at clubs and brothels.

    There are girls who try to make money on Snap Chat and other on-line sites.

    But there are also desperate girls who take big risks by taking on as many total strangers as possible, one after another, just to eke out a living. Many of them have abusive pimps to take a good portion of their income and force them to work. Those girls risk disease, abusive treatment, injury or even murder.

    Some girls wind up as sex slaves.

    The other risks of prostitution are arrest, jail, and social stigma.

    For a number of reasons, I think prostitution should be legalized and regulated. After all, it's like every other kind of service industry. But that's a different topic.

    Anyway, I hope you have wonderful sexual experiences and learn to love it. Once you get used to it, you can experiment with all kinds of things. Try out fantasies. Again, nothing you enjoy is degrading or demeaning.

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  • Sex can be a positive and enjoyable experience for many people, but it can also be a negative and demeaning experience for others. It is important to understand that everyone's experience with sex is different, and what may be enjoyable for one person may be traumatic or harmful for another.

    In the context of sex work, it is important to recognize that many sex workers experience physical and emotional harm, including coercion, violence, and exploitation. Sex work can also perpetuate harmful gender and power dynamics, as well as contribute to stigma and discrimination against sex workers.

    It is important to listen to and respect the experiences of sex workers and understand the complexities and challenges that come with this profession. While some individuals may choose to engage in sex work willingly and may have positive experiences, it is important to recognize that many others may not have the same agency or positive experiences, and may face significant risks and harm.

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  • It depends on the person and what they like or don't like. Some people love to be tied up and made to submit, bondage, etc... forced to do things like go naked in public or let others have sex with them.

    Some may love that and get off a lot while others find it demeaning and humilating.

    Usually if someone likes what they are doing then it is not bad or demeaning but if they feel like they are being made to do something they are not comfortable with that is when it crosses the line into being demeaning and a terrible experience for them.

    I have a theory that people who have a lot of sex need more intense things or they get bored while when it is new they can get off easier but to keep things exciting they get more extreme.

  • yes if you don’t want it, sex isn’t simple it’s supposed to be emotional in a good way even if it’s not with a serious partner.

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  • It depends who you are with and what they are into. Be sure to stop your partner if you are not enjoying yourself.

  • With the wrong guy it can be very demeaning, well degrading would be the word I would use.

  • Sex if it's because you are in love or want it is wonderful. Sex because you're forcing yourself, being forced or doing it for money or attention IS NOT. It will ruin you for life. Make sure it's for the right reasons.

  • Why would it?

  • No...

  • If you mean porn it can be pretty bad. Most women couldn't cope with that.

  • stay vigin till u get married...
    take it as a serious advice..
    u will be cheap and easy to fuck when u be used to do it..

  • Its all in the guy who are with u
    In ur 1st nights dont try rough sex keep it soft
    Then u will start asking for rough
    by the way dont lose it for anyone ^_^

  • Only if you're into that. But 99% of the time it's a loving experience