Can sex get weird when both of you are virgins?

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To everyone, how was sex for y'all the 1st time?
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  • Of course. Always awkward. That's normal and okay. But if both of you are really awkward or weird about it that is a blazing red flag that you're not ready for sex. You may want sex but you're not ready for it.

    • Lol, I want it but I'm not ready, I'm really awkward in every way imaginable.

    • I doubt you're that awkward! 🙂 Your question was very well worded. Sex is wonderful. The first time will always be awkward physically... it's just a first. But mentally a person should be 100% mentally "I want this" not just horny lust. (I'm not talking about you, just in general! 🙂)

    • Regarding your update: mine was pretty awesome and she felt the same way. Physically it was awkward. We had these parts and figuring out where they went and what they did was a new experience. But we had two HUGE benefits: a safe and comfortable space and almost unlimited time. She was an only child and her parents had gone into the city for an entire day. We were able to have sex for the first time at her house and enjoy a large, real bed and to explore and play and have sex with no time constraints. It really was wonderful for both of us.

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  • In this age where almost everyone has access to online porn, virgin couples probably know enough about sex before they enter the bedroom.

    Hence I won't use the word "weird" because they likely seen enough sex scenes before.

    But I'll say sex could be awkward to virgin couples.

    Yes, getting naked is an extremely awkward experience for virgins. And then seeing each other's private parts is something exciting (on screen and real are very different experiences).

    And novelty can be awkward. If the couple should follow "standard" textbook foreplay, then trying to touch each other intimately, attempting to perform oral sex, even kissing and hugging each other naked can be "special".

    In conclusion, yes, sex between two virgins can still be awkward (weird) despite the prevalence of porn.

    • 😅 did you say it's exciting to see each other's parts for the 1st time? I don't know about that one.

    • To me and my SO it was. We lost our virginity to each other. It was exciting, mainly because we anticipated for 6 months before we had sex.

    • And how long were you together before you did it, started talking within that 6 months or knew each other before then?

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  • It can. Do some foreplay first before, so you can get relaxed and aroused a little easier, rather than rush into the sex part. Like blowjobs, eating out, kissing on body parts, nibbling, this will loosen your body up, so it's not uncomfortable. Some girls are too dry their first time because they're so nervous, but foreplay will help with that. Good luck!

    • I don't think I'll be comfortable with oral sex for a while 😅 thank you.

  • it's better if the guy knows what he's doing but if you're both virgins it will be fine after you do it a few times

  • He don't know where to put it? yea the sex might be more difficult, but also more special.

    • I'm not naive, I know he's watched porn and a lot of it, lol, just hasn't done practical part of it. I have mixed emotions about all this

    • Yea most guys watch porn, virgin or not and it not rocket science, why mixed feelings?

    • Mixed emotion = I wish I hadn't asked if he's had done it before cause I can't rid of the thought of all the what ifs. Without doubt I know he won't mess it up, just worried.

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  • most likely

  • Maybe awkward but I don't think weird

  • It could. Best he know hos way around, first.

  • My wife and I were not virgins when we started going out but neither of us was very experienced so we sort of figured it out as we went along. It was really a lot of fun.

  • I imagine it would be.

  • It could be awkward but I wouldn't say weird. Learn about what each other likes and dislikes

  • No, as at the beginning of sex, none is virgin!

  • Not really because you don't know if it's bad or not.

    • Sticky since she just spent about 4 hours passed out asleep on top of me. Literally her whole body was on top of me. Granted it was in the winter, but still.

    • She just wanted to cuddle and it was winter 😅

  • No its normal...
    But both dont have any expertise?

    • He's watched porn, so 🤷‍♀. Does that count?

    • Yes.. If he masturbate a lot He has erection problems

    • The dick was so hard untill i cummed!!

  • Probably... depends if you are weird, sex is a projection of your desires when souls are close.

    • I feel like people take a bite out of you when you have sex with them. Am I wrong to feel like that?