Can someone explain to my why most guys that watch porn watch females that don’t look like their girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Most guys watch porn with females that look nothing like their girlfriend.

[Notcreativenough]

I'll be completely open about this one as I'm a great example of this. I find the whole goth/tattoos/piercings/colored hair types to be extremely attractive though they do little in the way of relationship compatability for me. My hookup type and wife type are very different so I totally get the desire to explore different types online. Regardless of how logical it seems to me, if you have an issue with it make it a non-negotiable in your relationship and get you that man that only has eyes for you. They're out there, I know many of them personally.

[Asker]

Thanks for your honestly I always thought about it this way ; if a guy judge a female is because he actually attractive or like something about it. For example my boyfriend always points out “look at that female hair she looks like a bird” but deep inside I think he like that. On the other hand I’m brunette or always aim to go with dark color hair. Same with him watching blondes lol

[Anonymous]

Well when you think of it, it would be kind of hard to find a porn actress who looks like a girlfriend. I mean, people look so different. If I ran across some porn where the actress looked like a former girlfriend I'd probably get a bit turned on. (Depending on the former girlfriend... LOL)

[summiter]

I have watched both... It is still fun to look at sometimes but not too much.

[Bratsondanielle]

My boyfriend better not watch porn

[Dargil]

Did you take a survey?

[BarryLiverstone]

Could be the fantasy aspect. Like seeing what they can’t get. Do you know a guy who does this?

[AimeeKyle]

I mostly watch porn that looks like my SO…. I imagine her/us in those scenarios. Sometimes it’s hard to find so I make do…

[AndrewAzul]

I never cared the looks of women in porn, it's always been about the act or conduct for me

[RuthlessAggression]

Not only have I stopped masturbating all together, I've also stopped watching porn. It was running and ruining my life

[Twalli]

Because it's an escape from reality

[In_Trance]

how would this be any different with women?

you don't go car shopping and look at the identical car you already have...

[Hanrej]

That's why!

You don't watch movies to relive reality, you do it to experiance somthing else.

[abc--123]

Variety is the spice of life

[Anonymous]

I don't have a girlfriend. Very few invisible pornstars. At least none that I know of.

[Anonymous]

Because it's unrelated (there's nothing personal there). And we like variety in that we often enjoy seeing various different types of women naked and/or having sex. Sometimes porn is curiosity as well, and not necessarily something we're "into". This is a common thing women thing that's not true, a particular woman we might be watching, doesn't mean we "want to sleep with them".

[Anonymous]

I think its fantasy based

[Anonymous]

It's hard to find porn with the girl who looks exactly like what you want.