I've heard in used 2 ways
1 is they jerk off thinking about you
2 is you jerk a lot of people off but that I have only heard once about a decade ago about a girl I went to school with who when to party's to get drunk and jerk people off... she had a few nicknames including shaggy kebaby for having sex with the owner of the local kebab shop for a free kebab... i don't know if it was true but that one started be for I did and continued after I left
oh dear lord - number 2 is sooo not me! oh please - make that go away! i have never ever done anything like that. but thank you for answering... i very much appreciate it!
Yeah the first makes more sense as is mentioned in the other posts... I've only heard it once so I'd say it was unique
for me it would be a girl which makes me horny all time and i masturbate to her pics, nudes etc
thank you Cowboy6666... but what does that mean... to you? is it just sexual? is she just like porn or something? I don't want to be just porn to this guy. I have always cared incredibly deeply for him and if he thinks that I am just porn? ugh.
you can say so he is more sexually attracted to you.
ok the reply is popping up in a weird place again. but thank you cowboy so much for responding again. so he just thinks of me as porn? background: we never did anything. like nothing. no kissing no nothing. i rubbed his nose once and he sang to me and got me a blanket. he cried on me once (?) and said i was his dream girl. so you really think it is just a sexual thing? why didn't he ever try anything then? and i can't believe that you guys are so willing to respond to these questions... so thanks eh? but man - more details please? like what the hell is this guy on about? my heart has been tied in knots for years not knowing what he wanted or expected?
I am assuming that he means that you are the person he thinks of most when he is masturbating.
thank you ushagomez? but again? is that a bad or a good thing? what am i supposed to understand from that? he's like - "yer too good to touch" or something (?) - i don't know (?) and i am like - "i'm right in front of you or something so?" - arghghghgh! ya i am having a stupid female meltdown. but if i could just understand what the hell he means? thank you again. thanks to all of you for trying to answer. this is a very sweet site!
not "sweet" like "dude where's my car?" but more like this site is very helpful and i appreciate people taking time out their day to answer. thank you all again.
So, maybe he his waiting for you to offer to help with that?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I guess it's a girl you think of when masturbating.
thank you Shiver for taking the time to answer - i appreciate it!
It's basically a temporary girlfriend
someone slutty, a girl to be used only for sex and thats it.
A fuck monkey, love doll, blow up doll.
Girl being treated like a piece of meat.
You get the idea now
oh humanearth - what you are saying makes complete sense! but i have never been slutty? like never! but i do get the drift of what you are saying - so just basically a "doll" (he's called me that before) that you pull out of a closet whenever you need to jerk off? and then toss her back in and don't think of her again until you want to masturbate again? ugh. ugh. ugh. thank you for being so brutally honest. ugh.
He masturbates to picture of his memories of you
thank you Opinion Owner... I couldn't reply directly to your comment? and thank you cody (that's a lot of c's?) - thank you both. So can I ask you both - what does that really mean? He said he thought I was a good girl (I was. I was a virgin) and he remembers everything (like everything) I was wearing when we met years ago. He said he thought I was too young? And too small (he calls me tiny like a mouse?) and this is my dreamboat but other girls asked me if he was my Gold Standard and I am like - 100%! and then we recently talked through email and he said I was his jerk-off girl and I don't know if that means he wants to have sex (dude - I would in a heartbeat!) or if he just wants to be friends (?) or if he thinks I am like his sister or cousin or I don't know? Any ideas that you guys have - thank you. I am so glad that I found this site. This guy has been confusing me for like 20 years? I have no idea what he is talking about... like ever? or never? oh I am blathering and I just want to say thank you for even bothering to answer. I really appreciate it!
He thinks of you while choking the chicken.
Nikki1989 - finally a girl! have you ever heard of this expression before? he thinks of me while choking the chicken? that's it? only then? like that effing sucks. i was hoping i was special to him or something. ugh. but thank you so much for taking the time to respond. i really appreciate it!
My guess is he thinks if you when he is jerking off. I've only ever done that to someone I'm sleeping with or in a relationship with.
Is he into you?
yikes. yes he says he has always "been in to me". he talks about my hips and waist and bum but then he gets strange cuz i look younger than his daughter ( i think he means more fit) - and he remembers how i used to look when he was a boy (only 18 and 19) and now he has a daughter that age but if you throw a bag on my head - my body still looks only that old and he is having a serious hard time with that. did i answer your question? thank you so much for responding to mine!
Hmm that's a strange one but from the expression it means someone you masturbate too.
No I don't personally have a jerk off girl. lol. I have never seen it that way
thank you Rudon00... I appreciate your taking the time to answer. I find it strange too... I don't have one of "those" or something... I have someone in my heart and I love that person and if we could find a way to be together - that would be wonderful. So you don't have one? Thank you for sharing that. For baring your beautiful soul that way. And I am learning. Message received.
Yes my friend. I haven't had a female partner for a very long time. my sex life is so non existent today sigh. Its good to know you have someone in your heart you share and connect with. treasure it my friend and do not take them for granted. May I ask you. Have some one refer to you as a jerk off girl? My first interruption of the question was that you love jerking off. lol Hope to hear from you soon
wopps - did i totally explain all of that wrong? oh i am so sorry my friend. let me try again. i had a guy refer to me as his "jerk-off girl" - i had never heard that before? so i was asking "strangers and friends" their advice and opinions here and "friends" answered... and if you have never had one of those kinds of girls - that is all the answer that i need. thank you for responding! and if what i am saying doesn't make full and proper sense - please don't hesitate to ask for clarification.
He thinks of you when he is rubbing one out.
thank you rockrewls (cool name!)... ok - i think i am figuring that out by the answers from the guys. does it mean anything else? i am just like - what the heck is he talking about and why can't he just tell me what that means? arghghghgh! he's always treated me like i am his sister? so what the heck?
Just straight out ask him what he means, maybe tell him you won't be offended by his answer?
i told him that i would bang him in a heartbeat? he doesn't believe me? and then we keep finding each other ( i don't even know how to explain this properly)... but this has been going on for years and i keep waiting for him and he keeps finding other women? like wth? thank you again, eh? you are all very nice!
I've never heard this term before
thank you for responding - I really appreciate it! I was told that a guy has considered me his jerk-off girl for years now and I just really didn't know what that meant? Like, is it a good thing? or a bad thing? I had never heard the term either. Again - thank you!
Oh, OK, he jerks off to pics or mental images of you. It means he finds you attractive.
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