Can't stop thinking about my ex when I masterbate?

[Anonymous]

It's been like 3 months since we broke up but I literally think of him 80-90% of the time when I masterbate. I don't understand it... it sucks. :/ Help?

[Suhmer]

I can understand this but STOPPP. You will never get over this guy if you keep getting off to him sexually! Emotions are tied into that and you'll relate the pleasure to him and you shouldn't do that! Really bad emotionally, just think of his best friend or something ;)

[Asker]

LMAOOOO. I know what you mean, after 3 months of just thinking about him sexually I started thinking about him romantically :( I dont want to!!! Its so hard NOT to think about him because he was always on my mind. I guess i need to train my brain...

[Suhmer]

During orgasm oxytocin is released in the brain which is the love hormone, and I personally think there's a correlation between orgasm-ing over someone and developing deep feelings for them, so if you want to move on you really should stop. I know it's super easy and nice to think of stuff you have done together or should have done together but emotionally it won't help with the break up! And who wants to be the person still hung up on their ex? Personally I don't want to give them the satisfaction of still being able to make me cum :P

[Justalilkink]

This

[Asker]

Yeah Im trying so hard looooooool, I guess I made it a habit. :( Its going to be so hard :'( :'(

[TheBootyChest]

It means you were really turned on by him. I don't think there is anything wrong with that. But I do understand that it might be hard when it comes to getting over him.

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately until someone new comes along, that's going to happen. :-(
Maybe you can watch porn? But I wish u luck!

[Asker]

Really? Does that happen to guys? I've tried watching porn, but then i end up watching porn that I knew he would like... so I would still be thinking about him

[Opinion Owner]

Guys are just different all together. Lol. Some are and some aren't. I've never really masturbated to an ex. But have masturbated to porn.

[AidenBlue]

Well, the sex must have been pretty good. I don't think its that unusual. You experieneced it and it can be the trigger for you to get excited/get off. I still think of old girlfriends sometimes when I get off. Its a hard habit to break.

[James19]

Its normal and fine.

[Asadi]

get a new one

[Asker]

not that easy fam

[Asadi]

wanna try cyber?

[Anonymous]

*masturbate