Can't tell what my boyfriend is doing?

so whenever me and my boyfriend is having sex he rubs his hands all up and down my body. In the middle of sex he pauses and he just sits there with his dick in me rubbing me up and down. is he enjoying it?
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  • He's probably using the edging technique. It's when a man prolongs sex by avoiding ejaculation/orgasm by stopping physical stimulation to his you-know-what. So when he feels himself getting close, he stops, and after a little bit he can continue going again without immediately ejaculating. And you can do that over and over again, or at least until his balls swell to the point of overwhelming discomfort. And yew, that's a thing. Balls swell in anticipation of ejaculation. It's also where the term "blue balls" comes from, but it's also important to note that "blue balls" is nearly always exaggerated when said in the context of someone leaving someone else with blue balls.

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  • It's very likely that he is taking a break so he doesn't arrive at the point of no return.

    He may also like the feeling of your skin on his member, or is perhaps seeing if there are any other areas of your body that you would like him to explore?

    It could be that at some point you've given him positive signs and he is doing it because he thinks you like it.

    You might try to guide him towards places you want him to put it?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Sounds like he's trying not to finish too quickly

  • Just sounds like bad foreplay, I assume he's doing it to please you. You might have to suggest something that would actually increase the mood for tou

  • He is pacing. He still enjoys sex but he stops moving his dick to last longer. How do you feel when he stops?

  • Although the answer is likely, "yes," he should be the one that you ask and not just us.

  • Yes, he is.

  • Yes. It feels good to touch a naked girl's body

  • he is pausing so he does not cum