Can there be love without sex?

[Anonymous]

there will be no sex

[DextroShade]

Not unless it's a member of your family. If you are expecting a guy to be your boyfriend, do boyfriend things for you like protecting you and paying for dates, and not have sex unless you are a virgin you can fuck right off with that bullshit. If you are a virgin marriage had best be happening in around a year's time.

[Asker]

I'm a virgin, never had an emotional or sexual relationship before I asked the question in general, not for myself.

[SolitarySolace]

I hope so because if not I’ll never experience love. I believe people find it impossible to love someone without having sex with them and with the millennial generation going the route of the volcel trend, either love will start to prosper without sex or it won’t. I think sex doesn’t matter, politics and values are already driving a divide between men and women.

[Asker]

partially true but can you date someone without having sex?

[SolitarySolace]

Can I? Absolutely. I honestly hate intercourse.

[Asker]

Are you asexsual?

[SolitarySolace]

I prefer voluntarily celibate. I don’t consider my loathing of intercourse to be a sexuality trait

[Anonymous]

I think there can absolutely be love without sex. But when Im "in Love" with someone, I want to be intimate. But I have friends who are asexual and have never been really sexual at all (masturbating even).

[mandyfire98]

Yes you can have love without sex and sex without love.

[PositiveFlight]

There can be platonically however just like cement needs the resin or glue, romantic love between a man and woman requires intimacy and ultimately intercourse in order to solidify and consummate such deep love.

[Asker]

I partially agree

[ShadowYamihiro]

Answer is simple. Yes it can but that is not for everyone

[Asker]

I agree

[Billlewis]

Oh, absolutely.

[Asker]

👏👏👏

[Billlewis]

Well, what I mean is, no sex for me, but she always has the freedom to date and fuck other guys whenever she wants, and that's really how it should be, in my opinion.

[Asker]

So he can cheat on you? So if you're heterosexual, why not have sex?

[Billlewis]

She has unlimited freedom to date, bed, fuck or anything else she wants to engage in with her male lovers, and we have an established agreement that her boyfriends will always take priority over me. So, it's not really cheating, but rather, a different standard for her, because I want the relationship to be centered around what pleases her.

[Asker]

It's not something I would ever accept, but I respect your opinion.

[Billlewis]

Oh, I wouldn't expect many people to accept that kind of arrangement, but it's perfect for me.

[Asker]

😑🙄🤔interesting

[Billlewis]

I just happen to believe that the only reason for me to have a relationship with a woman is to kiss her ass and worship the ground she walks on, and when, inevitably, she starts dating another, more masculine guy, he immediately becomes the second greatest priority, after her. I'm not considered worthy enough even to kiss their feet.

[Tortoise_Lover]

Billewis doesn't make any sense to me id much rather be the one pleasing my girlfriend

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Absofuckinglutely! There can also be sex without love.

[Gent207-2]

I cannot have ether or I must have both

[artgorgeous]

Yes. Love to your child.

[Fireguy17]

yes.
That can happen.

[Nifrayu]

Yes oh course.

[Asker]

Surprisingly, many people today do not accept this.

[Nifrayu]

For a lot of people sex is an important part of their life and they can't live without it. It's difficult for them to imagine there could be another way.

[Asker]

True...

[exitseven]

yes, I have loved a girl that i never had sex with,

[Ben487]

yes. However, there can be no marriage without sex. A sexless marriage is an abomination.

[Asker]

Yes, it is normal in marriage.

[_piotr]

There were "white" marriages in history. Also some couples promised not to have sex after their babies were born for religious purposes.

[Asker]

@piotr Isn't it ridiculous not to have sex after having a baby in marriage?

[Asker]

@_piotr?

[_piotr]

Because masturbation or fornication is sin in Christianity Bible advise to those who have problems with high libido: "Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control." The "white marriage" This view was rooted in a belief that sex is a result of original sin and that Bible say "It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband." Saint Augustine supported the idea of sex, even in marriage being undesirable. Some theologians, however, see here a small influence of condemned Manichaeism in this teachings. Personalny I think it depends on both people. If they both agree not to have sex it is ok. Perhaps both have small libido or are asexual or have such beliefs. If they are both happy that way it is ok. I would not however swear this, as it may change and they find it impossible to keep the promise. ("But I say unto you, Swear not at all; neither by heaven; for it is God's throne") Men may find it harder to stay in sexless marriage due to their biological nature (like more testosterone production).

[Freyke]

There can be. Just not when I'm involved.

[Starrrboy]

There has to be some form of physical intimacy...

[Tortoise_Lover]

I've never had sex officially and haven't held a good relationship so I honestly don't know but my heart say yes because sex isn't a priority more as a bonding between two who wish to get... Excited :3

[AydenHazor]

There can absolutely be love, either platonic or romantic, without sex.

[smilelots]

I dont think so unless you both are built that way its part of human nature to have sex with each other for pleasure or for making a family either way it should be pleasurable.

[LiamJHayden]

Yes.

[Asker]

I agree with you, but most guys don't go on dates without having sex.

[LiamJHayden]

Most guys will have sex even on a first date if the girl offers. I won't till we are in a committed relationship.

[Asker]

this is great have you had sex before?

[kellytheman]

Yeah sex is a physical way to show love but you can also show love emotionally and mentally but most guys like the physical love.

[ohmyguy]

Sure parents sibling other relatives same sex friends pets.. food forms of entertainment etc. You can love minus the sex...
Liking some is a go for sex.
Sort of maybe possibly at least one time for a couple of hours is also in the sexability department

[Twalli]

You can love without it. I love my parents, sister, and dog more than anyone but my girlfriend. Of the 4, I refuse to have sex with 3. They feel the same, but we still love each other. Yet I don't think I can be in love with someone if sex will never happen.

P. S. I know my dog loves me even though she can't verbalize it.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

platonic love, or loving someone as a like a brother or best friend