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Can u straight up ask a guy for sex?

I don't wanna sound too easy or slutty because I'm not... but I met this guy in person once (we first met online) for some reason somehow it turned into a hookup kinda... we didn't have sex he just fingered me with my clothes on. Later he asked if i could ever come over or if he could come to my house and obviously i knew that meant sex but im not opposed to it cuz he was just that good LOL😅 a few days later he msged and asked if we could hangout and I said I couldn't because I was sick. A week later when I got better I asked to chill and he said he was sick🤔 we haven't talked for almost a month now and I still want him:/ Ik I'm going to get judged for this but Im honestly a very straight forward person and i like to say what i want without sugar coating unfortunately. Would he be put off by me just saying that I want him like that? I don't want him to think I go around saying this to every guy cuz believe it or not this is actually the first time I rush into things like this but I don't know what to do😧
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  • Of course. I would recommend knowing the answer first and person. Don’t feel weird about it, guys and girls both want it, we need to stop pretending otherwise and fitting into social roles, it’s hot when a girl knows what she wants

    • omg literally thank u for saying that! why can't all guys have this mentality smh

    • I guess I’ve had enough experience where it all seems like a blur, in terms of who started what, who flirted first, who intimidated sex, it kinda doesn’t matter. I grew up with 3 sisters and maybe that has something to do with it, I not only heard them, but all their friends growing up, and it made me think it’s about even, maybe girls are even more sexually driven. I’m of the opinion, that girls are just as much driven but the exception is they have more conditions; they need to know it’s all ok, to show and act how they feel, and need to feel good about it, safe of course, etc but as soon as all those conditions are met. Can you really say guys are more interested than girls? No, seriously

    • very very true!

  • Is there a way that you can get him to help you out with something. Can you be "having a problem with your computer" and ask him over to help out?

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  • OMG that would really turn me on. I'm very afraid to even get get close to the subject of sex because I don't want to scare her away. That doesn't mean I don't want it, I just want to make sure she does!!!

  • In this day and age I don't think being straight forward with your feelings would be a bad thing.

  • He couldn't care less even if you were saying this to every tom, dick and harry 😅
    Dont worry, go have your fun, he won't judge you, and even if he did, he isn't giving up on sex 😂

  • depends on the guy. in this situation i think you will find him pleasantly surprised.

  • Go for it Tigger

  • You both already crossed over the line of what you both want in the relationship don’t see why you’re so hesitant now you’ve already let him to third base? just make the time and place and may the fireworks begin.

  • sure you can. i'm pretty sure it will work if he's mildly attracted xD

  • Of course you can!

  • If you are a straight forward person then just be straight forward and ask.

  • A female friend once asked me straight up for sex. I couldn't believe what she was asking me. She degraded her right before me.

  • Absolutely, he still wants it. Pm me if you wanna discuss :)

  • Send him a picture of you in your bra or bring up sex discussion

    • Why the picture though?

  • " I don't wanna sound too easy or slutty because I'm not..."

    You are easy

    • Not really lol depends on the situation

  • Sure.

  • yes go on ask.

  • Lol you just found me lol. Follow me if you want to

  • U may do that

  • You sure can! That’s hot too!

  • how much good you are in controlling conversation! if you are i have a suggestion, play a game with him on chat where you give him two options, he will pick one.. start it as curious conversation then turn it into hot sexy sexting, if you want. lol :D

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