Can you be happy?

Can you really be happy in a relationship with someone who constantly looks at naked girls on social media not porn just random videos on Snapchat of public profiles and Facebook while sitting right across from you?
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  • I can understand why it would be annoying. You should mention it to him that he needs to focus less on his fantasy women and pay more attention to you. Sometimes relationships start to run off course and people don't realize that they're blowing it.

    • What do you do if you’ve told them but they just continue to do it?

    • Well, during my marriage we went through different phases. At first I was so devoted to her that I didn't even look other women in the eyes let alone watch porn or anything. eventually we ended up with adult channels on tv and both off us watching porn together and separately online. I honestly think porn and sex toys, and social media, and all that stuff is bad for relationships. Unfortunately times are changing and the expectations are different now, and a lot of people are doing that stuff while in relationships. I honestly don't know what you can do other than communicate your issues to your partner, and if he doesn't care then he isn't compromising, or being very considerate, or even respectful. All you're asking is that he doesn't do it sitting across from you, and that he tries harder to be more present in the moment with you and grateful for you right? He has to learn that your happiness is is important as well if you're gonna stay together. Communication and compromise is key, as well as picking your battles. If this is truly hurtful to you, then I guess you guys may need to have a serious discussion about where things are going between you two. Personally I probably wouldn't break up over porn unless she was obsessed with black guys or something so different than me that it doesn't even make sense for us to be together.

    • He is very obsessed with girls that are the opposite of me. I have a a pretty face but god was not kind on me i have a cups abs sagging bc of Brest feeding my 1st child and absolutely no ass from the side he looks at every girl that is DD or bigger and a gym rat ass. With no stretch marks when I do and flat stomach when I have a small mom pooch

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  • I can see how that would turn a girl off any day. Is this happening to you?

    • Yes really bad

    • Sorry to hear about it... is he jerking off to the pictures also? Is it affecting your sex life with him?

    • He only touches my body at all once a week that’s sex, ass slapping, cuddles, anything

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  • I wouldn't care if he looks at porn or whatever but if im hardly getting any attention id feel like why am i even with him for to feel like a wall?

    • What you stated yeah that would upset me too.

  • I couldnt and wouldn't put up with that. Stay the fuck single if thats what you wanna look at.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I wouldn’t think so.

  • Yes if they meet my needs I could be happy with them

    • What do you do if they ignore you and choose to jerk off to these girls for days on end then finally decide to touch you after a week span?

    • I talk to them and explain how that’s not proper behavior. I ask them why they have chosen to reject me and if I don’t hear a reasonable answer I talk about making decisions based on the future

    • How often do they ignore you for a week?

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  • That's a red flag

  • What about hugs, kisses, good conversations, going out to dinner, etc? Is he doing any of this. Even if there's no sex activities like these still fall under intimacy.

    • Not much of it anymore. But sex is the most intimate thing that should happen at least every day in a relationship