Can you fuck a girl while she's sleeping?

Question

It's ok for a guy to wake up to a girl giving him head or fucking him from ontop but is it ok if a a girl wakes up to a guy licking her out or to him fucking her?

Having sex with a girl whiles she's a sleep sounds almost like borderline rape. because there's no concent.
But a girl riding a guy isn't as bad... I don't get it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I've read testimonies of girls getting fucked during their sleep. After they wake up and realize what happened, they would start to cry, and be so angry and sad at their boyfriend etc..; real drama.

I've never heard guys complaining about it.

So... you better ask the girl first because some of them are just hysterical.

AndrewJacksonJemal · Accepted Answer

i used to wake my girlfriend up licking her clit when we slept in the nude, sometimes she wouldn't wake up until she was about to cum... and she wasn't upset about it lol

TheButterfly · Accepted Answer

If she outright tells you "im okay if you fuck me while im asleep" then its fine and vice versa for guys but if not dont fuck someone whos alseep. If you're in a relationship, i think its playful and sexy to wake someone up with oral though because you're giving them pleasure

pseudoloid · Accepted Answer

That's rape for both genders unless given consent before. Even if you're in a relationship, you have not clue whether or not that person is comfortable with that. So if you're going to do that, I'd suggest asking for consent before they fall asleep.

CaLi-GiRl · Accepted Answer

If she's given consent numerous times before and shares your bed to where that's a possibility.. Then I see no problem with it. But if she's drugged or trashed, that's a no no. Same for girls with men.

far2gud4u · Accepted Answer

i used to love that! if you are a couple and sex is something you have already done then let her experience it. She will either boot you off or love it...

XRabbitHeartX · Answer

It depends on the context. If it's boyfriend/girlfriend type of scenario then I think it's OK... but if it's some random person or one night stand then I'd be cautious.

Genie23 · Answer

Wth? No, that's a rape.

Rissyanne · Answer

You are absolutely correct... but do you know many guys who would object a girl waking them up with a bj or sex? It does sound one sided. But guys made it that way... my opinion.

ilovesexyfeet · Answer

If your in a relationship the girl probably wouldn't mind but that's only if you been together a while and trustbeach other. Don't go on a date and bang her if she falls asleep or you could be in trouble.

Just1n123 · Answer

If you're not in a relationship and there's no consent then it's rape for both genders.

abundantlyrich · Answer

Get an official permission slip from her first before you ride her like a battered animal.

AdoringFan · Answer

I suppose if you two are in a relationship consent is kinda already implied so either way is usually fine. Otherwise it kinda borders on rape both ways.

ThatBritishLad · Answer

No need, she'll probably fall asleep half way through anyway.

PeterPanho · Answer

It's what happens at parties when females get drunk to death.

Anonymous · Answer

I think it depends on the person. Not if she’s a girl or a boy. Some men can feel uncomfortable waking up to some girl jumping them while some will def enjoy it. Just like how some girls love getting woken up by getting fucked or getting eaten out and some just plainly hate it. Again, it’s really a matter of preference. The only common thing you’ll need is CONSENT. If she’s given you a go signal before that she’s okay with you doing it. Then man, go ahead!! Enjoy!

Anonymous · Answer

Usually that happens after they have both had sex or are already married so there would be no rape but it does seem kind of wrong probably because we are wired differently. We want them to open up for us while they want other things.