Can you get pregnant from penis rubbing vagina and the man’s actual semen doesn’t have contact with the vagina?

Shortly said - without actual intercourse and the man doesn’t come near your vagina, can this act make you pregnant? If yes, how small or big is the chance?

PS. boyfriend sort of forced me to do this. I told him not to do it but he did. I told him not to do it while it is without intercourse since I’m not on the pill. Now I’m scared of getting pregnant. Lately, I have had intense stress that my period is still absent. After my last period I also had stress that my bleeding stopped earlier and the ovulation phlegm started a week later.
Don’t be angry with me for not being able to get birth control or anything. I never planned anything. I didn’t even want to have outercourse sex.
Lately I’m using another drug to prevent to aftermath - it is like aftermorning pill but it contains medroxyprogesterone.
Updates:
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I did the pregnancy test today. The result is negative. Hopefully I’ll be having my period. Or I have another health issue.
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  • This is a major question asked across the web, which I believe really hasn’t been answered properly yet. So to answer this simply the chances of getting pregnant from semen being ejaculated outside the vagina is very low. I’m talking about a lower than 10% chance. Second of all of the ejaculation was further away from the vagina or not on or around the vagina the chances are likely to be less than 1%. Your period may come late and the answer to why is literally on your question. You seem very stressed and worried and being stressed can delay periods. You should research what this pill is doing and how it works, as most morning after pills prevent you from being pregnant and on top actually prevents you from having a period on this cycle, so I believe the chance of you being pregnant is virtually 0%. Stop worrying! Just follow the instructions of the pills and surely nothing should happen. Also what if you said no to your boyfriend and he did it without your consent he has committed the act of rape. Many people believe the act of rape is violent but rape is literally sex without consent and from what you are describing this is what happened.

    • Thank you sooo much for your message. Hopefully I will be having my period soon.

    • Great to hear! Told you nothing to worry about, your chances were virtually zero!

  • Its hardly unlikely but not completely impossible. If semen didn't come anywhere near your vaginal opening, (even dripping or leaking onto it after orgasm in some way), there is next to 0 chance for impregnation. just get a test to relax

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  • All there needs to happen is have some precum on the tip of his wienerschnitzel and there is the possibility of pregnancy. If you are not on birth control why is he not using a condom at least? You are playing with fire if you don't as pregnancy could be a real possibility in your future the way you are taking chances.

  • Precum contains semen and if he is rubing that then it can def happen.. fluids on fluids can cause anything

    • boyfriend said it didn’t contain but I told him it contains. He said then “are you naive or something? It doesn’t contain any sperm cell.” So he did rubbing and said he had to ejaculate which he did after leaving me. As I said before somwhere. I did NOT want to do it. Since a long while I don’t feel horny at all as if I’m having menopauze. I didn’t even get horny during the whole act. I also suffer from vaginismus. So the pelvic floor muscle was all sensitive and sore. After the outercourse I immediately cleaned the private area too.

    • You could be good or not semen moves through bodily fluids so if he precums and you vag is at all moist it can happen. It's all about mucousal membranes and a sperm cell can swim in that shit eaisly to the "endzone"

  • Girl how old are you to be asking a question like this

    • Out of fear I ask this question. Please, stay respectful.

    • And I didn’t want it at all. Instead of asking a question, give an answer or don’t leave a message.

    • This is a nonsense message so I am gonna reprt it

  • No, it can't. Just remember that precum can be weakly fertile during a long session of sex

  • Impossible

    But you need to dump your boyfriend. He basically raped you.

  • My boyfriend got me pregnant by fingering 😱

    • Umm, what? Please explain, as that is NOT possible.

  • Highly unlikely

  • If you have sex, there's always a chance. No matter what

    • Yes, that is why I’m scared.

    • Is it the chance small or average when you read my full message above?

    • At this point no matter what the chance it won't put your mind at ease. I've been there. Get a pregnancy test and then get some protection before you do it again

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  • "Age 30-35"
    "CaN I GeT pReGnAnT wItHoUt GeTtInG pReGnAnT"

  • There's always a possibility. Pre-cum (a guy's natural lubricant) can contain sperm. And don't let your boyfriend force you to have sex. Seriously. Tell him to rap it up or keep it in his damn pants.

    • If you read my full message, can you say that I may be pregnant? Or is stress the reason that I’m not having my period?

    • I'm saying that its highly unlikely but still a possibility. Stress can certainly influence your period. When in doubt, take a pregnancy test.

  • Nope.