Most Helpful Girls

  • For hjs, you’ve got to keep it wet or it’s not going to be good. You can use spit or lotion, but I recommend using lube. It seems to work best. For bjs, give him occasional eye contact, have fun doing it, and use lots and lots of tongue, both when he’s in your mouth and when he’s not. One of the most important things is that you enjoy it, or at least seem to enjoy it. The more you enjoy it, the more he will. And don’t be afraid to ask for a little instruction. All guys are different, and asking him to help you find what he likes goes a long way to get better for him and show that you really want him to enjoy your blowjobs and handjobs.

  • Use your hands while sucking, twisting your hand up and down , keep your hand near your lips so it feels better, lube is good, keep it wet, use your tounge while sucking, moan while doing it. Mix up the pace. Play with his balls at the same time. Look up occasionally.

    • Do you think the guy should give some feedback with expressions so the girl can know if she's doing good job? :P

    • Yep. Or talk dirty. When my fiance moans it's the best thing ever, so moaning is good, not crazy screaming just kinda a grunt haha

    • Hahaha you mean something like 'aaahhhhh'? :P

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Most Helpful Guys

  • The pee hole and the lower area of the penis head are really sensitive places to play with your tongue

    And don't forget keep gently foundling his balls sack the whole time

  • Variety, pay attention to his cues. Give him what he seems to respond to but don't just keep mechanically doing the same thing. Mix it up, then go back to it.

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  • Don't just suck the whole time. Take it out of your mouth and lick from base to tip

  • Ask the guy if he needs to eat pizza while he's getting a bj/hj. You can order it before you can start bj.

  • lots of spit ik it sounds gross but seriously its so good

  • Slow
    Lick the shaft
    Spend some time just on the head
    Masturbate the shaft while sucking the hrad

    • *head

  • Lick the part Wer the head connects the dick part

  • I say start slow but ask your guy how he likes it

  • Use lube

  • Check out the sex tips on Cosmo. Its very helpful!

    • Have you improved your oral from that? :D

    • Somewhat, but it is more helpful for beginners.

    • Yea probably! Then you gained the experience from doing it to guys? :P