Guys, Can you have sex with someone you are not attracted to?

[Anonymous]

[MrOracle]

The answer is slightly complicated.

If I find her absolutely UNattractive, then, no. And, for example, there could be a woman who has a very attractive face or body, but if she smokes or uses drugs or she's batshit crazy, then I will find her unattractive, and I could not sleep with her. But I know you mostly meant looks, and, yeah, if she's completely unattractive to me for whatever reason, then, no, it's not going to happen.

BUT... there have been girls who may not be particularly attractive overall physically - like maybe a 3/10 - but maybe she has a cute face, or great tits, or a really nice ass, even if the rest of her is pretty unattractive, and maybe she has a very attractive personality, or she's very sexual and kinky and "just my flavor" of kink - then, yeah, I could definitely make it happen. One good feature plus a good personality/attitude can be enough to overlook the rest that isn't so great.

[Reaper1985]

many guys can to some degree. but I tend to wait until I'm in a exclusive relationship with someone before engaging with them in anything sexual. mostly due to my morals and believing that sex is meant as a relationship tool for couples to bond on a deeper level.

[DannyUk2017]

Ofcourse, every "body" has their needs...

[EricWeston]

I'm not that desperate (No offense to anyone).

[Asker]

Why do guys get away with it?

[EricWeston]

I guess way back when I was a teenager sometimes I would get drunk at parties and end up hooking up with random girls that I wasn't really into. After I grew up and I married a very attractive woman it basically changed my standards for life. Now I really only pursue women who are on her level or even more attractive to me.

[Avicenna]

Honestly, yes. It's not as enjoyable, but I've done it before (I don't make a habit of it, that's for sure).

[Asker]

Guys are weird.

[ManOnFire]

Virtually difficult for me.

[bowenw]

Yes some guys will have sex with anyone.

[exitseven]

Yes, some guys will screw a snake if somebody would hold it's head.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, looks don't matter to me, as long as she got a kind heart.

[FilmGuy93]

In theory... it's not a nice experience.

[ArtemisSilver]

I guess, but why?

[genericname85]

"can" as in it's physically possible. but i wouldn't choose to.