It's interesting to relate it backto when you made him give up his fetish and it affected you. What was the fetish and why did you make him give it up?
Maybe deep down you feel guilty for making him give it up or in some way it was something that turned you on but you didn't realize it. Sometimes we think one way but our body reacts a different way.
I have seen a woman say she doesn't like something but her body betrays her by getting extremely aroused by it. Brain thinks it's wrong but the body loves it.
Race play was his fetish I am black he is white and it took affect on how I viewed myself even went outside the bedroom. I do feel guilty because it made him happy but me miserable and ik how much he values sex
I can see how race play could make you uncomfortable and want to put a stop to that. That is something that is foriegn to me for play when you are already a mixed race couple. It's important not to do something that makes you uncomfortable. You need to search inside yourself to see if there is something that deep down turns you on and excites you. This is a hard one to help you with.
What was his fetish? People with fetishes usually need whatever the fetish is in order to have enjoyable sex; it's not the kind of thing they can just let go of.
Depending on what kind of fetish we're talking about, you might need to bring it back to save your relationship.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Chances are you fed off each other's excitement and energy, and that fueled your sex drive. When you took the fetish out of the equation, his sexual energy probably plummeted. Discussing with a professional might be helpful. Finding arousal in each other, and other ways to bring happiness back into your relationship will likely help both sex drives.
Invent a different fetish. Change location, create situation.
That's a tough one. When people are used to completely relying on a fetish to become aroused and to enjoy sex, it can become difficult for them to become aroused without the fetish.
I would recommend getting help from a sex therapist in this case. I don't know of an easy solution. I think this calls for a professional.
I'm too young for a sex therapist 😂
Sexual health and sexual relationship problems aren't exclusive to older age groups. It's up to you if you want to seek help from a therapist, but I think it would be a good idea based on the situation you described.
Talk to your obgyn. Maybe something stopped producing some hormone.
Go see a doctor. Talk to a specialist talk to your husband and go from there and in all of that be honest, completely honest with yourself and with others about what’s going on.
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