Can you help me understand what makes a man dominant or submissive?

So just going to need you to tell me if you are dominant 100% or submissive 100%... if you are a switch this ain't for you. When you give me your answer please tell me if you were raised by a single strict dominant mother orr if you had a dad and mother who was the head of your home basically, and which parents were you more close too... I am just trying to understand what makes a man what he is when he becomes a adult.
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  • I'm submissive in the bedroom. I came from a fairly normal family. My mom was loving and nuturing, and my dad was a strict asshole.

    I became submissive because of specific sexual incidents that were traumatic and happened to me in my early 20's that I generally don't talk much about.

    In my case, It's safe to say that when you love someone and crave them dearly, that they can use that to torture you emotionally and that even after it's all done and over - you can still crave that 'feeling' that is now a combination of emotional torture, sexual lust, and love combined.

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  • I'm 100% dominant in my relationships. I don't know how much of it has to do with upbringing though. My dad was a convict and enjoyed banging whores every chance he got so he wasn't ever around. My mom was a bit dominant too though. She married a few guys but also had a submissive side to her in taking care of me. It's hard to say if any of this mattered.

    • Was she dominated towards her lovers?

    • *dominant or did she take the submissive role in her relationship with men?

    • I don't think so, but I didn't really ever find out lol. I only know my dad was dominant because he used to tell me how to fuck somebody and those tips clearly came from a certain perspective lol

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  • Im a very submissive guy. I'm closer to my dad. Mum is a bit strict as a person, so if she said no to something, was easy to get a yes from my dad. Not sure who the dominant one is between my parents tbh.

    • It was your mother who was dominant thats why you are submissive

    • How can you be so sure? Dad kind of always has the final say though.

    • You said your mother is strict so I assumed she was the dominant... ohh so once your dad said its okay your mother allowed it to happen?

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  • I consider myself submissive but I also have clear limits too

  • I don't think anything directly causes it, it's just something we grow into.

  • I know nothing about those stuff. I just love pegging sex

    • When is your birthday? And was your mother in charge of your home? And not your dad?

    • 1971/9/21 My dad

    • Ohh okayy thats interesting thanks for sharing

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  • I'm submissive, not 100% though but highly submissive, raised by a single dominant mom

    • When she dating guys would she take on the leader dominant role?

    • I don't know about that, but she was dominant running the house, resulting in her son becoming submissive to women.