Can you hit her/your g-spot with your fingers on the first try?

[Flower-petal]

[MlleCake]

There is no G-Spot. Grafenberg was wrong, and so were the people that coined the phrase.

SOME women have a place in the wall of the vagina where the internal parts of the clitoris can be easily stimulated just because it's close.

The vaginal wall itself is just there, not doing anything. The good feelings are coming from the clitoris.

It's ALL always the clitoris.

www.researchgate.net/.../Are_vaginal_orgasm_and_G-spot_a_scientific_fraud

YOU ARE NOT BROKEN. Every woman's body is different, and has different ways you can stimulate the clitoris.

[BeeryNice]

No matter how often this is proven, it is always denied.

[DejectionControlled]

And what about the A-Spot?

[iamdesperate]

I tried in the beginning but failed to hit g-spot. Later, after reading articles, I did find where was it hidden.

[niomi04]

Where was it hidden?

[Flower-petal]

@niomi04 OMG lol

[niomi04]

@fp.. I was just being inquisitive... Lol

[Flower-petal]

@niomi04 I know LoL

[ghostqueen]

Usually. I used to have trouble but now it's pretty easy.

[laurieluvsit]

YES!
You may need some help... lol

[Flower-petal]

Ikr lmao 😂

[laurieluvsit]

Not that I'm volunteering, of course... lol

[Flower-petal]

Lmfao 😂😘

[laurieluvsit]

Saw your update Ms FP, You are so funny! I like you:) Wish I could have been there... lol

[Flower-petal]

Lmfao 😂 thanks hunny bunny

[TheCunningLinguist]

Yes, it's right under you clitoris on the inside. Place your palm over your clit stick your Center one or two fingers in and curl them back towards the palm of your hand. You should hit it dead center and it'll feel Very much like touching the inside of a clam with your finger tips.

[Flower-petal]

I know you've told me before. Apparently I forgot 😂

[TheCunningLinguist]

No worries. I'm happy to assist.

[Flower-petal]

You should totally answer my questions more often

[TheCunningLinguist]

I'm sorry. I'll look out and make an effort to.

[Flower-petal]

Just follow me duh LoL

[TheCunningLinguist]

One way to remember where to find the Grafenberg reflex or g spot as it's called Is to remember That it is Also clitoral tissue And that there is more of it there than there is on the outside and they are the same/connected.

[Flower-petal]

That's why even just leaning against the counter feels good.

[TheCunningLinguist]

Indeed it can be.

[MlleCake]

There is no G-spot. What you're feeling is part of the clitoris.

www.researchgate.net/.../Are_vaginal_orgasm_and_G-spot_a_scientific_fraud

[TheCunningLinguist]

@MlleCake Not to be a smart ass but, if you read all of my comments you will see that I mentioned that. And that study does not invalidate Dr Grafenberg discovery. It merely explains the how and why it works. If you understand the research And the politics that drive it, You would know That all researchers and doctors want to put their name On what gets the most press. Actually if you continue to read the actual research The Grafenberg reflex is still used To describe The internal pressure point Of the clitoris

[TheCunningLinguist]

So regardless of how it is written, It is still Known and will continue to be known as the G-Spot. The funny thing is, That it is not the only internal pressure point within the vaginal cavity. It is just the most famously known one.

[Flower-petal]

Anyway--hope you are well. Can't message you.

[MlleCake]

That doesn't change the fact that continuing to refer to it by an incorrect name is still significant in sexology, and it changes how we teach women about their bodies. This woman here felt like she was broken. Broken. All because we cling to an outmoded word. We learned it, we can unlearn it. And it starts with people like me who are obsessed with research on female pleasure and anatomy and make it a major calling to educate people. I believed in the g-spot, until I didn't. Now I give talks on the subject. It does indeed invalidate Dr. Grafenberg's theory, and it explains ways women have always been describing their experiences. You're telling this woman she has one and how to find it. But there is not an "it" to find. Some women have places in the vagina where it is easy to put pressure on the clitoris, some don't, and they can usually figure it out if they masturbate. When we imply all women have this spot, we do a disservice to women who don't.

[TheCunningLinguist]

@MlleCake Your focus on sematics does nothing to further your argument. You are simply telling women that orgasm may just not be for them, instead of taking the time to walk/talk them through or show them and that appears more like bitterness than actual education. The study you referanced is beyond incomplete. If you studied and understood half as much as you claim about Anatomy and physiology Or the anatomy of the female orgasm you would understand that though, there is no superficial tissues in the vaginal cavity that directly correlate with the female orgasm, There are spots Deeper Behind those tissues much like the trigger point therapy of Massage that can lead to a heightened sense of pleasure and assist in achieving a stronger orgasm.

[TheCunningLinguist]

The human nody is not two dimensional (even inside a womans vaginal cavity), and if you push on the tissues you will reach derper nerves behind them.

[TheCunningLinguist]

Yay! I knew you could.

[Flower-petal]

LoL 😂😘

[MrOracle]

My current girl? Sure. Any random girl? Not necessarily - every woman is built a little differently, so it takes a bit of searching sometimes, and of course, if she's not aroused, it isn't swollen up and hard and protruding, so it's harder to know if you're in the exact spot.

[AustinMan]

Absolutely. Why do you ask?

[BeeryNice]

Rodents Of Unusual Size? I don't think they exist.

[EpicDweeb]

I was with my last girlfriend. I've only ever been with her though so I can't say it applies the same for anyone else, but it certainly exists. This is you have to be aroused already for it to really show itself. I suppose it's possible some people don't have them. It would explain why so many scientists seem to think it's just a myth with no evidence to support it. But it is in fact real.

[Andrea89]

Not always on first try

[tctravis007]

Once I know her, yes - same for her deep spot too. My current girlfriend... it's amazing when I work those two spots - she has the strongest orgasms - her entire inside balloons and contracts - it's amazing to feel and experience and see her :)

[Elliegirl]

I know where mine is, so I don’t really have to find it. I just go there.

[MayBlythe]

Yes, yes I can thats how much experience I have and I'm no ashamed to say so

[niomi04]

No one should be ashamed for that

[joshuafreeman707]

Somebody that I've been together with for a while, yeah I can generally hit it on the first try. With a new lover, it takes me a second to find it.

[Flower-petal]

A second huh LoL

[joshuafreeman707]

Yeah. I mean, it's not like a buried treasure on an island or anything. There's not that much relevant area to search.

[Flower-petal]

LoL buried treasure that made me laugh

[20yearsolder]

I can find mine every time.

[fsu19]

Yes because I know where it is, she has to be aroused to feel pleasure from it though

[ObliviousJester]

Hell yes. She loves "my magic fingers"

[uchihaone]

Sure you can

[Mexicoman101]

I've only had sex a few times, I never really stuck my fingers in a pussy before, always my tongue. My fingers were usually used for rubbing thighs or spreading the lips apart so I could either penetrate with my tongue or suckle her clitoris.

[helva]

I never found something very sensitive as what's called the g-spot.

[LeeKenz]

No I can’t

[LeeKenz]

Lolz

[Duke1985]

Yea, it's usually not hard to find

[zeecool]

I never tried yet... Guess she has to guide me there first.

[DizThaWhiz]

Yes, it's not hard to find and if I get lost, I always ask the right questions lol

[Flower-petal]

Always good to ask lol

[DizThaWhiz]

Haha agreed!

[DiegoO]

Not sure, I feel like a virgin once again after years of nothing x P. I can't even remember how it feels to fuck a woman. xD

[Abhineetshukla]

Not in the first try with a new girl. But when you get used to you can always find it right away

[Abhineetshukla]

Great news you found that lol